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okay so I had a Boyfriend but everything was so messed up and he was such a depressing person to be around that I had to break up with him. I told him that if i felt ready to be in a serious relationship i should tell him.. I want to be in a relationship but not with him and idk what to do because he will get angry and he's already had a horibble life without what i do but idk how to do this!!!
 SammanthaKay posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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cuteinblack6 said:
I think wewe should try and comfort him. Maybe ask him what bothers him so much. wewe should also tell him how wewe feel about his mood and how it affects your relationship. Talk it through and try to get rid of misunderstandings :)

If that just makes his anger stronger, wewe should probably look back at your moments together. Did he make wewe happy? What did he do/gave up on for you? Then wewe can decide if he is really worth all the hassle.

I hope your upendo will sprout!
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 I think wewe should try and comfort him. Maybe ask him what bothers him so much. wewe should also tell him how wewe feel about his mood and how it affects your relationship. Talk it through and try to get rid of misunderstandings :) If that just makes his anger stronger, wewe should probably look back at your moments together. Did he make wewe happy? What did he do/gave up on for you? Then wewe can decide if he is really worth all the hassle. I hope your upendo will sprout!
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skytail127 said:
i suggest talking to him about it. tell him how wewe feel and try to understand how he feels. it sounds like he realy needs someone to be there for him. try and see wat wewe can do to help him get through watever he is dealing with. maybe wewe could get him to talk to his parents au a trusted adult who can get him some help if he is realy that depressed. have some sypathy and try to understand wat he is going through.

on the other hand, i do understand how being around someone who is so depressed can be difficult. ive had a few boyfriends who were like that and while i was able to help some of them, some of them it was just too much, i get that. i also understand wewe just wanting to relax and hav fun and not have to worry about ur bf. if being with him is making wewe miserable, wewe may want to just leave him. if wewe just cant handle being around him, staying with him wen wewe dont want to just to spare his feelings will only hurt both of wewe even zaidi down the road. dont lose yourself in the process of helping him.
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ok well his parents im pretty sure know bout his depression bcuz its bcuz of his sis but anyway he wont leave me alone and he makes me feel bad all the time so we havent been together since may and he still is bothering me
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cheese4evah said:
Don't worry someone in my grade is exactly like this. Tell him that wewe want him to cheer up and enjoy life. There is only one
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