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So, there's this guy at my school who is SUPER popular. Almost all of the girls at my school fawn over him and completely throw themselves at him... and I admit it, I understand why. I mean, he isn't bad-looking and he's amazing at singing.
My best friend thinks that he likes me which I guess sort of got me interested in him. I've known him since the seventh grade, and now it's freshman mwaka and he's still as maarufu as ever. I always thought he was a douche now... but I guess I like him like all the other girls in my school.
But anyway, I'm wondering if what my friend is saying is true... She says he looks at me a lot, and gets really quiet whenever I talk near him, but I swear to God he hates me. He sits right inayofuata to me in English (and my best friend sits behind me) and he talks to EVERYONE ELSE AROUND US BUT ME. Including my best friend. I am seriously the only person he DOESN'T TALK TO in English that he sits near.
I've also caught him staring at me at lunch, and his maarufu 'posse' would look back at me and laugh at him. I've never really seen him get red au anything, but he has gotten pretty quiet and sheepish around me sometimes. He's usually a quiet person though, so I guess that's just how he is. My friend also mentioned he gets pretty 'smug' whenever we do talk, and I guess he's just proud that he's gotten another girl in school to fall for him. But I don't know if that's true since he never talks to me in English, now that I sit RIGHT inayofuata to him. Before I sat in front of one girl who sat inayofuata to him who would always start the conversations and we'd be able to talk then. But now since I sit RIGHT inayofuata TO HIM, he doesn't talk at all.

So... is my best friend right? Does he like me? au is he just a player? (he probably is, but I guess that's my judgment. But I could be wrong. Who knows?)
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angelwings2055 said:
try and talk to him
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Catherine51197 said:
Well does he act the same way around any other girls (or all the other girls)? Because if he doesn't, then I'd definitely say that your best friend is right. The fact that he's sitting right inayofuata to wewe & not talking to wewe is most certainly a supportive sign, but try get up the courage to start a conversation with him & see if he responds (if he doesn't, then I'd say your right about him hating you). If you've figured it out correctly & got all the positive facts in your favour/your side, then I'd suggest wewe go for it. But don't do anything untill your absolutely 100% sure & when wewe are, then just start off kwa asking if he wants to hang out during break times for a couple days/weeks, then hopefully he'll be brave enough to take it from there (if he doesn't seem to onyesha any interest after the 1st few get-togethers, then drop it & songesha on because in that case he's probably either going to stay 2 shy au not do anything to take it further). Good luck :)!!
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Emma0213 said:
I am going through the exact same thing and what I'm doing is

That's it... Nothing
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