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how do i start talking to him?

So if wewe saw my awali entry, "does he like me... au not?", wewe probably alisema he does indeed like me. If wewe haven't read it yet, then wewe should probably go and check it out so everything makes zaidi sense.

Two people ametoa maoni saying that they assumed he liked me and I should try talking to him. Thing is... I don't necessarily know where to start. It's not like I'm a complete stranger to him - I've talked to him before, it's just that conversations don't go the way that I plan them too. Either we're too shy to say something else, au someone barges in and takes the limelight, so he ends up talking to them and not me.
As I alisema before, this guy is one of the most maarufu boys in school and he's extremely musically talented. He loves playing kinanda and preforming magic tricks. He's quite weird, actually, and he's pretty poetic. He likes uigizaji and is probably one of the best singers I've ever heard for our age.
Again, I don't know what kind of topics to start talking about... I've always had this extremely high social anxiety level since I was bullied mercilessly in the past. I don't have any Marafiki (literally, I'm not exaggerating) and I find it hard to make friends. Let alone talk to the guy I like! So what can I do to start a conversation with him?
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Catherine51197 said:
I've had the exact same situation before, so I know how wewe feel; with mine, I had family & friendship connections with them, so it was a little bit easier to talk to him (I have 2 zaidi that I still haven't talked to though). So I would suggest wewe find someone wewe know wewe can trust & talk to them about this, then ask them to talk to his best friend (or him if the person is close enough to him); au if wewe want to do it the hard way, try leaving a not in his locker/slipping one to him during theater class & suggest a secret place where wewe could hide away, so wewe two can talk together without being interrupted.
P.S. To start a conversation, find a common topic that wewe both have similarities with; like wewe both have theater together, so wewe could talk about uigizaji (i.e. your latest/favourite uigizaji part).
Hope I helped (if I didn't, I'm really sorry ):) & good luck :)!!
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