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Best friend's boyfriend doesnt like me? (long swali sorry)
Right so my best friend Nicole is my whole world, we have been best Marafiki for 4 years now and i upendo her to bits, she is gorgeous, energetic sporty and funny, we are extremely close because we are identical in personality and we do most things together.
But the problem is that people... including our Marafiki parents AND teachers.... have ametoa maoni on our closeness, saying that we are too close and too attached one teacher even alisema its "unhealthy to be together all the time" which we responded kwa laughing hugging and saying "we are nearly one" but its started to annoy me, we do act a little silly at times, we hug a lot, sit on each others laps and act kind of lesbiany (but i have absolutely no sexual feelings towards her) people constantly ask us if we are a couple and we always laugh it off, she really couldnt give a tiny rats ass...
But now it started to worry me, Nicole met a guy, Richard, he is nice and she likes him a lot...
but he doesnt like me!! its because he thinks i'm too close with Nicole and he even asked me if i was lesbian with her... which i replied clearly "no"... He always blanks me and he never wants to hang out when im with her and he has pulled her away from me to talk "in private" i realise he wants to hang out with her and not "us" but it irritates me that he doesnt like me cause im so close with her and she's starting to disconnect with me because of him... what do i do? Are we too close? How do i get him to like me?
But the problem is that people... including our Marafiki parents AND teachers.... have ametoa maoni on our closeness, saying that we are too close and too attached one teacher even alisema its "unhealthy to be together all the time" which we responded kwa laughing hugging and saying "we are nearly one" but its started to annoy me, we do act a little silly at times, we hug a lot, sit on each others laps and act kind of lesbiany (but i have absolutely no sexual feelings towards her) people constantly ask us if we are a couple and we always laugh it off, she really couldnt give a tiny rats ass...
But now it started to worry me, Nicole met a guy, Richard, he is nice and she likes him a lot...
but he doesnt like me!! its because he thinks i'm too close with Nicole and he even asked me if i was lesbian with her... which i replied clearly "no"... He always blanks me and he never wants to hang out when im with her and he has pulled her away from me to talk "in private" i realise he wants to hang out with her and not "us" but it irritates me that he doesnt like me cause im so close with her and she's starting to disconnect with me because of him... what do i do? Are we too close? How do i get him to like me?
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