I am in upendo with Vampire Diaries. However, it is my duty as a shabiki to not stand aside and watch the writers and the mashabiki of this spectacular onyesha make the biggest mistake ever! upendo is a very passionate thing and no matter who Elena chooses in the end if she chooses stefan..... it will be the biggest mistake she will ever make in her life and for the Stelena fans..... wewe know I am write and wewe are probably thinking who the hell is this person Stefan is hot, well i will admit he is pretty hot, but upendo depends on passion and how much a person connects and damon and elena have a relationship(besides the sire bond) that i am pretty sure any girl au maybe guy....... would kill for. so if the writers choose the wrong one i am sorry to say but they do not understand upendo and that is a shame because this is the perfect upendo story.
Stefan is way to nice-nice with Elena! He needs to be himself around her otherwise it is fake and everyone knows a fake relationship never ever works out well. Whenever Elena is around Damon she is happy and Damon isn't afraid to be himself around her. Sure they (Damon and Elena) have had their ups and downs, but they always manage to work it out in the end which proves that their relationship is much stronger than Stefan and Elena's! Stefan never tells Elena not to something, especially when she shouldn't do it. Damon would make sure that Elena would not do anything that could get her hurt.
Another reason is that Stefan can't control himself, he is a danger to the people around him because wewe never know when he will go off the rails and hurt someone. Damon does get mad and does stupid stuff, but he would never hurt Elena, no matter what!
Another reason is that Stefan can't control himself, he is a danger to the people around him because wewe never know when he will go off the rails and hurt someone. Damon does get mad and does stupid stuff, but he would never hurt Elena, no matter what!