Of all of my peeves, this definitely bugs me the most. It's like if you're gonna pick a fight then at least have the decency to keep your original post. Don't call someone names, wait for them to fight back, and then hariri your maoni to subtract the insults so wewe can look like wewe didn't do anything wrong. It's just the most cowardly and kind of annoying thing to do. At least when I throw an insult I have the balls to leave it up and the respect to acknowledge that it may have not been the nicest thing to say and be up front about my snarkiness. People like that are why I have to screencap any debates, even the small ones I get into, in case they escalate and the person is puts on the victim act. It's like grow up and stop playing innocent. It's just the most annoying thing in the world to me when someone does that and then a third party person--who has no knowledge of the situation--comes in and starts chewing me out accusing me of being the only person being rude because someone just couldn't stick to the truth and hid behind the hariri feature.
I know, I know, butthurt alert! The alarms are going off. Lengthy introduction rant aside I have a few reasons as to why I think people shouldn't abuse the hariri button.
First and foremost, I always seen the hariri button as a 'lord help me I made a typo!' button. I've always viewed it as a way to avoid embarrassing spelling and grammar mistakes wewe made the first time around. Not as a malicious 'mu ha ha ha, I'm gonna make this guy look like a real douche' button. I feel like it's almost abusing the hariri feature to go back to an argument au an insult wewe typed and hariri it out for the sake of making yourself look good. I'm all cool with someone taking an insult out of a maoni because they decided that didn't want to offend a person after an impulsive spur of the moment anger rant. I'm also all for going back and rewording something if it came off zaidi offensive than wewe initially intended. But if your doing it just to make your opponent look bad, then isn't that kind of just weak?
Which brings me to point two. It's rather cowardly to pick a fight with someone and then back out in such a way, when things aren't looking to good for you. In real life wewe can't suck the words back into your mouth, so I think people should grow up and realize that the same is true on the net. While yes, the insult may be gone in a physical sense, but it may au may not still be burning in the other person's mind. Believe it au not, the person typing back to wewe has feelings too. I understand that arguments and debates get heated, but that's no reason to take the wimpy way out.
Point three; it is annoying as all heck when someone says something like "Liking *insert ship* is wrong and sick" and I (or anyone else) leave a such as "Making maoni like that is rude and disrespectful" and then going back to the kura ya maoni after a dakika au so to see that the maoni now reads "I don't have anything against *insert ship* but I don't like it". And then beneath it I have two au three other users telling me to "back off" and "leave leave him/her alone because he/she didn't do anything". That is a load of bull! And the editor knows it. It's like the third party people don't have the real and full story and now wewe have a mess of people getting mad at you.
Not cool at all. If you're wrong, own up. Have the respect and take the initiative to say 'okay, I was wrong, we were both wrong, I'm sorry.' Don't hariri your maoni just to slander others au get a user mobbed and bashed.
Last but not least; honestly, depending on the situation wewe probably won't even have to resort to such a childish method. I personally am really forgiving and really easy to work with. It's easier to apologize au civilly talk things out with me than it is to play silly games like the 'editing game'. Believe it au not most people don't take kindly to being painted as the bad guy, it takes two to fight. I'm gonna be up front--I don't play around--if wewe get into a heated argument with me, I probably have it screencapped (just because this has happened to me so much. Worry not, I futa it when the issue has passed) and I am not above posting alisema screencap if I notice editing. I'm not going to let people make a fool of me. And I'm pretty sure there are others who do the same.
That said, it's way easier to just talk it out, unedited. Again, I can't speak for everyone, but I personally am willing to forgive and forget if wewe just work with me. I think that talking things out with a person wewe are in a conflict with is much zaidi sufficient than playing editing games. Just talking things out tends to revolve stuff and doesn't leave as many uchungu, chungu feelings. Speaking from experience; I have gotten into some pretty heated debates, the ones who talked it out with me actually ended up on my Marafiki orodha where as the ones who did the editing--while I don't fight with them, there's still tension. I feel discomforted around them, even just leaving my opinion beneath them (even when it has nothing to do with them) because I feel like it might spark something up.
I've also had users apologize to me and then pull that maoni editing thing (or an out right removal of all the bad things they alisema to me) and it feels like a stab in the back. Like yeah, thanks for saying sorry, but are your really? Talk it out. Don't try to play innocent.
That's pretty much all I have for now. This has been a reoccurring issue I've seen it happen to others and myself. Yes something like this had happened again recently so this was kind of me venting. Maybe some of wewe agree, maybe not. Feel free to leave a comment, I'm open to discussion.
I know, I know, butthurt alert! The alarms are going off. Lengthy introduction rant aside I have a few reasons as to why I think people shouldn't abuse the hariri button.
First and foremost, I always seen the hariri button as a 'lord help me I made a typo!' button. I've always viewed it as a way to avoid embarrassing spelling and grammar mistakes wewe made the first time around. Not as a malicious 'mu ha ha ha, I'm gonna make this guy look like a real douche' button. I feel like it's almost abusing the hariri feature to go back to an argument au an insult wewe typed and hariri it out for the sake of making yourself look good. I'm all cool with someone taking an insult out of a maoni because they decided that didn't want to offend a person after an impulsive spur of the moment anger rant. I'm also all for going back and rewording something if it came off zaidi offensive than wewe initially intended. But if your doing it just to make your opponent look bad, then isn't that kind of just weak?
Which brings me to point two. It's rather cowardly to pick a fight with someone and then back out in such a way, when things aren't looking to good for you. In real life wewe can't suck the words back into your mouth, so I think people should grow up and realize that the same is true on the net. While yes, the insult may be gone in a physical sense, but it may au may not still be burning in the other person's mind. Believe it au not, the person typing back to wewe has feelings too. I understand that arguments and debates get heated, but that's no reason to take the wimpy way out.
Point three; it is annoying as all heck when someone says something like "Liking *insert ship* is wrong and sick" and I (or anyone else) leave a such as "Making maoni like that is rude and disrespectful" and then going back to the kura ya maoni after a dakika au so to see that the maoni now reads "I don't have anything against *insert ship* but I don't like it". And then beneath it I have two au three other users telling me to "back off" and "leave leave him/her alone because he/she didn't do anything". That is a load of bull! And the editor knows it. It's like the third party people don't have the real and full story and now wewe have a mess of people getting mad at you.
Not cool at all. If you're wrong, own up. Have the respect and take the initiative to say 'okay, I was wrong, we were both wrong, I'm sorry.' Don't hariri your maoni just to slander others au get a user mobbed and bashed.
Last but not least; honestly, depending on the situation wewe probably won't even have to resort to such a childish method. I personally am really forgiving and really easy to work with. It's easier to apologize au civilly talk things out with me than it is to play silly games like the 'editing game'. Believe it au not most people don't take kindly to being painted as the bad guy, it takes two to fight. I'm gonna be up front--I don't play around--if wewe get into a heated argument with me, I probably have it screencapped (just because this has happened to me so much. Worry not, I futa it when the issue has passed) and I am not above posting alisema screencap if I notice editing. I'm not going to let people make a fool of me. And I'm pretty sure there are others who do the same.
That said, it's way easier to just talk it out, unedited. Again, I can't speak for everyone, but I personally am willing to forgive and forget if wewe just work with me. I think that talking things out with a person wewe are in a conflict with is much zaidi sufficient than playing editing games. Just talking things out tends to revolve stuff and doesn't leave as many uchungu, chungu feelings. Speaking from experience; I have gotten into some pretty heated debates, the ones who talked it out with me actually ended up on my Marafiki orodha where as the ones who did the editing--while I don't fight with them, there's still tension. I feel discomforted around them, even just leaving my opinion beneath them (even when it has nothing to do with them) because I feel like it might spark something up.
I've also had users apologize to me and then pull that maoni editing thing (or an out right removal of all the bad things they alisema to me) and it feels like a stab in the back. Like yeah, thanks for saying sorry, but are your really? Talk it out. Don't try to play innocent.
That's pretty much all I have for now. This has been a reoccurring issue I've seen it happen to others and myself. Yes something like this had happened again recently so this was kind of me venting. Maybe some of wewe agree, maybe not. Feel free to leave a comment, I'm open to discussion.
Ok so I'm sooo sorry If I waited to long to do the story I SWEAR! that i'm going to do it tomorrow i'm so sorry. I have to many problems and i'm very emotional the last couple of days and it's a big problem with my family and i'm very sad but i really will start the story I swear! I cant really tell u about my family issues but I need someone to talk to. But on the other hand if wewe can be my co-writer i would upendo that but wewe have to be good like not basic, wewe know how when people push the story too fast...
Example for some of wewe dumbass trifflin punda cunt punda bitches: Yolanda dated this boy named Prince then he bullied her then he liked her afterwards the got married had a baby named Rolanda and Prince got hit kwa a car trying to see an old friend a kuvuka, msalaba the mitaani, mtaa 2 years later Yolanda sold Rolanda n got on crack,died, and lived happily ever after with Prince in heaven.
Example for some of wewe dumbass trifflin punda cunt punda bitches: Yolanda dated this boy named Prince then he bullied her then he liked her afterwards the got married had a baby named Rolanda and Prince got hit kwa a car trying to see an old friend a kuvuka, msalaba the mitaani, mtaa 2 years later Yolanda sold Rolanda n got on crack,died, and lived happily ever after with Prince in heaven.
ATTENTION: This is just a user opinion's on what could be cool for Fanpop.
1. Customize Profile: Everyone likes to have a nice profaili homepage, so my first idea is we have a chance of customize our own profile, with backgrounds, colors, fonts etc...
2. Medal Meter: I think every Fanpopers like to know how much are they far to get a medal on the spot, so my 2nd idea is FP give us the chance to see if we are far au close to get our medal.
3. profaili Viewers: How many and what users did check our profile.
4. maoni Reply Notice: Be notice in wewe sasisho when someone reply wewe in a comment.
5. Possibility to Change User name: Sometimes people don't like their user names...a opportunity to change would be nice ;)
Hope wewe Enjoy It
1. Customize Profile: Everyone likes to have a nice profaili homepage, so my first idea is we have a chance of customize our own profile, with backgrounds, colors, fonts etc...
2. Medal Meter: I think every Fanpopers like to know how much are they far to get a medal on the spot, so my 2nd idea is FP give us the chance to see if we are far au close to get our medal.
3. profaili Viewers: How many and what users did check our profile.
4. maoni Reply Notice: Be notice in wewe sasisho when someone reply wewe in a comment.
5. Possibility to Change User name: Sometimes people don't like their user names...a opportunity to change would be nice ;)
Hope wewe Enjoy It