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I do consider myself to be Christian and I pray every night but I am worried because I masterb*te kind of regularly and I am worried that is a sin. I might be kind of hypocritical for asking this because I watch a lot of R-rated sinema and listen to some bad muziki but I am zaidi worried about this because I know lust is a sin and I do fantasize when I do it. I would really appreciate your opinions and please try not be judgemental.
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Well, first of all, I for one don't agree with a statement that's a sin. Furthermore, I'm not even sure it's a lust anyway. I think that no religion should interfere with human sexuality, simply because it is the most natural aspect of someone's whole existance. In other words, don't let any religion stop wewe from being yourself, especially when it comes to your own sexuality. wewe see, many religions, including the Christianity, are extremely hostile towards all those who are different in any way from the majority of population, meaning most churches condemn all forms to sexuality, especially the homosexuality. When it comes to being judgemental, there are some churches, even some religions besides Christianity, which disapprove any kind of physical love. Someone's sexual activities should never become a matter for a religious debate! Religions are spiritual & people are material beings. Besides, I don't think that God necessarily agree with most of the teachings of those religious groups anyway. wewe see, for us Christians God is Love, so how can any upendo between people possibly be wrong? Speaking from God's perspective, upendo is always better than hatred au violence! I believe that it is violence & human desire for self-destruction that should be a sin, not a human sexuality (of any form) at all! Even God would agree with a motto: Make upendo not war! I belong to a church which is quite liberal when it comes to accepting someone's sexuality without being judgemental. I know there are churches & even some religions which are still hostile towards all sexual minorities. wewe should know that I belong amongst those sexual minorities myself. Being gay is OK, that's what I believe & what wewe believe in your moyo IS true, no matter what some church au religion might be telling you! Sexuality is a part of human nature, therefore how can it be wrong au even a sin? Speaking of sin, there are definitely much worse things in this world than human sexual activities! I think God would much prefer if there was NO war, hatred & any form of violence between people, so I believe God would (or should) accept our small sexual pleasures as perfectly normal, for we are all God's children after all! Sex & upendo are both natural & normal. Don't let anyone tell wewe otherwise! Hope wewe like this answer of mine btw for it is the best possible answer I could come up with.
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 Well, first of all, I for one don't agree with a statement that's a sin. Furthermore, I'm not even sure it's a lust anyway. I think that no religion should interfere with human sexuality, simply because it is the most natural aspect of someone's whole existance. In other words, don't let any religion stop wewe from being yourself, especially when it comes to your own sexuality. wewe see, many religions, including the Christianity, are extremely hostile towards all those who are different in any way from the majority of population, meaning most churches condemn all forms to sexuality, especially the homosexuality. When it comes to being judgemental, there are some churches, even some religions besides Christianity, which disapprove any kind of physical love. Someone's sexual activities should never become a matter for a religious debate! Religions are spiritual & people are material beings. Besides, I don't think that God necessarily agree with most of the teachings of those religious groups anyway. wewe see, for us Christians God is Love, so how can any upendo between people possibly be wrong? Speaking from God's perspective, upendo is always better than hatred au violence! I believe that it is violence & human desire for self-destruction that should be a sin, not a human sexuality (of any form) at all! Even God would agree with a motto: Make upendo not war! I belong to a church which is quite liberal when it comes to accepting someone's sexuality without being judgemental. I know there are churches & even some religions which are still hostile towards all sexual minorities. wewe should know that I belong amongst those sexual minorities myself. Being gay is OK, that's what I believe & what wewe believe in your moyo IS true, no matter what some church au religion might be telling you! Sexuality is a part of human nature, therefore how can it be wrong au even a sin? Speaking of sin, there are definitely much worse things in this world than human sexual activities! I think God would much prefer if there was NO war, hatred & any form of violence between people, so I believe God would (or should) accept our small sexual pleasures as perfectly normal, for we are all God's children after all! Sex & upendo are both natural & normal. Don't let anyone tell wewe otherwise! Hope wewe like this answer of mine btw for it is the best possible answer I could come up with.
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