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HOW DO I REACT WHEN MY GF SAYS SHES STRAIGHT!?!?!?!

ok so me and my girlfriend have been on and off for sorta the past two yrs. she says bc shes only in upendo with one girl it makes her straight not bi. what do u think... is she straight au bi? and how should i react when she says this?
 Hills1021 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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Ninja-Kitten said:
Well wewe might be the one exception to her normally straight preferences, au she might be slightly bisexual.

If she's saying it in a way that means she doesn't like wewe anymore, I would try to resolve the problem either kwa talking about it au breaking up with her if that's the only way.

But if she's saying it in a way that shows she's feeling vulnerable and scared, try and comfort her and help her through it.
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and if she says she still loves me?
Hills1021 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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ask in what way she loves you. as a friend au a stronger upendo if that makes sense. she might want something new, au maybe she is just confused. I personally think the fact that she loves wewe means she is bi, upendo takes time no matter who wewe are dating, and maybe wewe can make her realize that, because loving one girl doesn't make someone (girl) a lesbian either. I hope that makes sense
willowjames posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
Xeginy said:
I can see how this would be confusing. But at the end of the day, your girlfriend defines her own sexuality, on her own terms. She may have alisema that because she is in upendo with wewe (as she said) but feels very little attraction to any other women. It's not uncommon.

As to how wewe react...let her define her own sexuality, in her own words. It's not for you, au anyone else, to do that for her.
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writer67 said:
upendo is weird, it tests us in oh so many ways, wewe have all this want to be happy with an equal,and your moyo seems to be on a string.allow her to go if wewe trully upendo her,as if wewe hold her to tight wewe may hurt zaidi than yourself. be happy wewe can talk,even if its trivial,best to be freinds for ever, than someone wewe have to walk away from,it hurts,for your moyo is good, and an equal deserves an equal.chin up, smile wewe are a good person,just zaidi romantic than others, good luck in your endeavours;-]

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