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How can I accept myself?

I am a seventeen mwaka old Bi sexual and I have know this for a few years now even though I use to try to fight it. Almost none of my family know accept my lesbian cousin and her sisters. My closest Marafiki know and I have had a girlfriend but I freaked out when I was about to tell my family and broke up with her now I hate myself for that. I am tired of hiding and I need advice.
 silentgirl17 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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Heroine999 said:
wewe don't except yourself because your afraid of what your family will say.The pressure made wewe break up with your girlfriend.Your the only person who knows yourself.Do wewe except yourself?Is your family biphobic?If wewe don't know ask them.If they are then your going to have to wait until
your 18.And wewe can't fight it.Bisexuality is there
FOREVER.It's not a
disease/disorder.It's not a choose.Nor is it a sin.Humans
and wanyama had it eons zamani and have it now.Now about
your girlfriend.Did wewe upendo her?Get back together with her
if wewe did.Say sorry and explain why wewe broke up.She
could understand and get back together with you.She
might not want to.You can have other girlfriends au
boyfriends.There's plenty of people out there that may be
right for you. :)
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Lostariel said:
It seems to me that wewe have already accepted yourself; wewe just want others to accept you. The only way to have this is to tell them about your sexuality. If wewe are ready for it, tell your family and Marafiki and talk to them about it. Make sure wewe go at a pace wewe are comfortable with and sit and discuss the subject with whoever carefully in a way that wewe are happy with.
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