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Could I possibly be lesbian?

I mean I know I'm bisexual. I still have a little bit of attraction to men of course, but why is it that within the last 5 years every time I've been with a guy I always imagine being with a girl? Even lesbian relationships seem zaidi appealing and interesting whenever I think about it. I've never been in one before, but I still know that I fancy women and they're very sexy, because I always get turned on. I have the most wonderful guy in the world right now though and I would hate to have to let him go. I really do upendo him with all of my heart, but I just can't stop thinking girls constantly. What do I do?! I'm going to cry! :'(
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EgoMouse said:
"I mean I know I'm bisexual."
Hmm....you're probably not lesbian.
Bisexual isn't 50/50 like how people think bisexual would be. Sometimes you're zaidi interested in one gender zaidi than the other (in this case, of the female sex).
I'm the same, my mind defaults towards men and while I didn't tarehe men as much, my relationships with men was a lot better and exciting. When I do meet a woman that I love, I do think about her a lot zaidi than men. If wewe think about men at least sometimes in that way, you're likely bisexual.
If not....you might just be a bi-curious lesbian. I wouldn't really know. They're all just labels anyhow. Don't worry about the labels, just let things go naturally. If its not possible to be happy with your man, perhaps he's not the right person for wewe au you're not the right person for him. It's best to discuss it with him, he might just help a lot better than me.
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I'm able to think about guys and girls both romantically, but lately I'm zaidi curious about girls and why do I have to be curious when I'm already with a guy?
MewStrawberry posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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You've just answered your own question. wewe can't be a lesbian if you're bisexual because lesbians don't really want to be in a romantic, sexual relationship with men.
EgoMouse posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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