why are guys so mean to girls

I heard its because they like you.

They just cant express it.

*From personal experience and observations*

Its like little kids; when kids are small the only way to express they like wewe is kwa having him pull her hair.

^^

Its called cute flirting.

Yes yes, they suck! This is normal, he is your ex. But aren't girls being mean to boys all the time? Sometimes I feel disguse for us, actually. We are zaidi selfish than we think. Let's stop being only victims! Some of us are mean to every boy we don't like. It makes us double!

Boys who are mean to girls are mean to everyone, and those guys are usually the ugliest ones, who want the others to feel bad and inferior to them. When they discover something "wrong" au just different with that person (like a problem, a crush, a too tall au a too small person, a girl wearing a bit of make-up...)they start being mean and just don't stop! It's awful, I know, but wewe just have to ignore it. If your ex boyfriend is being mean to wewe ignore it. If he goes too far and wewe just can't take it anymore, wewe smash him on the face au in the dick (it hurts so much that he will definitly stop).
And my ex was being mean to me too. Don't know why, but who understands boys? I wish I could.
I kept ignoring him and now he apologized. but it won't be the same anymore, that's guaranteed.

hujambo people! I'm a guy, and I'd just like to speak for myself here. I'm not mean to girls. Never were and I'll probably never be. For one simple reason: they're the opposite sex, which means we guys are attracted to girls kwa nature. And I have to say that most of them are reeeeeaaallly cute. I know that wewe mean guys in general, but some of us are different. Some of us are kind and gentle to you, including me =D. P.S. That was pretty lame but still :P

accordin to me guys just r using girls these days....its lyk when ever u need them u go to them
n at other times "i dunno who she is"....be really careful coz its happened 2 me too

Because they suck! LOL
It depends on the relationship, try talking if that doesn't work...cut him loose, wewe don't need that.

Some guys r just jerks! They think they're 'soo cool' and try 2 impress their friends. Some guys don't know how 2 act around a girl they like. And some guys r just doing what guys do, being guys. Only 2 of my ex-boyfriends talk 2 me, the one who dumped me, and the other one who I dumped. The one who dumped me I hate his guts soo much, I can't believe I dated him in the first place; he's selfish, immature, irresponsible, spoiled rotten, and a stupid moron.

The reason your ex-boyfriend is so mean to wewe is because he jealous of who ever has stolen your heart. Its not that guys are jerks because not all are its just that he thinks that kwa being an jerk he can win wewe back. Just tell him he needs to stop because it just makes him seem like a child. He needs to face the facts that you've moved on.

okay did wewe dump him? if wewe did he probs still has feelings for you, but just and is hurt that wewe dumped him, his actions are out of frustration with himself not you.

if he dumped wewe he probs regrets his decision and and want wewe back, guys heads can be twisted he doesn't understand that being mean inst the way.

either way ignore him and take time to see how he reacts when your around other guys. situations with ex's can be messy and are best left alone.

Its because he is mad at wewe for breaking up with him so hes trying to et u back.

It's cuz they like u and r 2 'embarressed' 2 express it cuz he thinks his Marafiki will make fun of him! (HAPPENS 2 ME 2!!)

Well I am a guy and can assure wewe that all guys are NOT mean.
Also the guys that are mean to gals are mean to everyone.
Believe me this is First Hand Information.
('.')

boys are too immature they never call theyer always trying to onyesha off but that is normal

most of the time guys, like in my school, don't think it's not cool to be all friendly to girls so i think that's why they are mean. just to act cool in front of their friends. sucks, right?

They think that women will think they are good guys all big and bad so they will like them,but we girls don't like that. We like the sweet guys taht upendo you. Not the assholes that treat us like shit.

your Ex, oviously wants wewe back!! (provoking) so, its his indirect unovious way of communicating it.. (annoying). but its cute.., not really..

It could mean they like wewe au they just want to push your buttons. 'cause there was this guy who was always mean to me but he never liked me he just wanted to because it was fun to him. :(. & I don't like him.

some say a boy makes fun of a girl cause they like her...i think boys think there tough and can push girls around but not all boys r like that

Most people say boys abuse girls because they upendo them. Sounds stupid, right? Its 100% true. So it means your ex boyfriends still has feeling for you.......

have wewe ever heared the saying that when boys are mean to girls that means they like them but it could be wrong boys could be mean to girls because they dont know how to let out how they feel because are suppose to be strong but they just dont know how to say i upendo wewe and they hide that from people and they have this ego that says to just be mean dont tell how wewe feel because of what others might think of him leting out his feelings to a girl.Hope I help :) :( ;) Lunzzy1!!!!!

Not all guys are mean. wewe just happen to fall for the wrong guys.

I think it goes with the "they broke my heart" thing.

If a guy is mean to wewe during your preteen years there's a chance he likes you. If he's nice to wewe during your highschool years there's a chance he likes you. But guys mature later in life so guys that are mean mean to wewe even into your highschool years could still have a crush on you.

(I hope that made sence and helped.)

well ex's r usually mean coz of how its ended with u. but otherwise i dont know, im as nice as i can b with girls, not for any purpose ,just to be Marafiki ^_^

casuse they are a******* all they care about is theirselves they are hurting us and they dont care

i dont know but they always either take advantage of us au are really mean to us. if ur a guy nock it off!

I thought it was because they like u but I could be misken but we can also be mean to them to so we arent the only vics in the siution

Yeah its yer ex.
Not EVERY guy is.

Am not. [:

not all guys are mean, it just seems like that cuz(no afense to guys) there usually not as mature as girls, it takes them longer to mature, but it is true that there r bad guys who r out there, it usaully is because they were raised in bad surrondings, i personaly think that u shud brake up with a boy once he gets controllin, cuz that can lead to a bunch of things

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Most boys and guys are like that!!

Some people think is beause they like u......but i don't really know

o well i think they r mean cause they like wewe i mean i guess it prob depends on the age wewe are cause middle skool guys use to b mean to the girls they liked yet i thnk as we get older guys find diff ways of telling a girl they like them

They're not. Only dicks, ex-boyfriends, and guys who like you. Course there will always be people who flat out don't like you. But it's possible your ex is just at his anger stage of grief and just hasn't healed properly. au flat out does,t like you. wewe can never tell. Rrrrr -.-

that happend to me.i broke up with my
ex and now hes alwase yelling at me and saying
i hate you!lol...

I can tell u
we re flirting with u girls and that's why we re doin it ;D
We re doin it because we like u girlz

they either like wewe au are jealous of you. i personally don't see what they have to be jealous of; we're the ones that go through pain and agony, giving birth to their children while they just have a fun time getting into our pants

when someone is mean to u that means they have feelings for u still

Not all guys suck. Some are really sweet. But
sometimes when a boy is mean to a girl, it's
because they like them. They try to get attention
from the girl even if it is negative.

There are many resons i'll just quot a few
[1.]sometimes a guy wants to inpress the girl he is with so much that he puts his wants aside for wewe he may send wewe little hints like my buddy went to see so and so in tamasha last week i think that is so cool he mite say, if this sounds fimillyer then he is looking for your input not 2 say this is every guy and this depends on both the guy and au what kind of relisnship wewe have with eachother but some of us guys have seen abuse towards women and don't want to be that guy so we try hard to inpress and leave ourself out,
[2]It mite not concern wewe at all maybe he is going trough a tuff time, this is not a excuss at all what i am saying is that thourghout history a man is showed and au told what makes him a man and the one i have a hard time with as a man we to be strong for a women when somthing is bothering me, it,s like if i talk to the oppisit sex then i may not look the part of a strong and smooth super hero type anymore,and the same is to talk to my buddy about it, so where do i go mom au dad maybe i want to inpress them too most likly i just think it out in my own little head untill i have a solution and thean i'll shear what was going on at that point.

hu...i think that his way of loving u au inaonyesha that he is storng and inaonyesha that he loves u im not good giveing advies

As I was told kwa an "ex" (the dumper)..."I'm trying to forget you". Nice! This was from someone who made me promise to be a friend forever. I tried to be a friend and catch up on news but he verbally attacked me and patronized me. I'll never speak to him again.

Cuz, they like you. They might deny this but guys have this strange way of expressing their feelings. Some of them is because they really like to onyesha off. But no matter how mean an ex is with you, just know that it's so not your fault.

guys r to stuped to onyesha there feeling au they r scard to be rejected

Because they are arseholes!
Kick him in the balls!!!!!!!!!

Because boys don't know anything, especially when they see a girl they like. Boys are their meanest when they see a girl that is pretty, and it's also because of their egos. All boys have egos, some bigger than others. Sometimes egos can make boys be jerks to girls, even to ones they like.

Some boys are just mean because their jerks.

the guys that are mean to girls are either just mean au douche bags. but wewe all act like all guys are mean. wewe people are disgusting. not all guys are that mean. i've never met a guy that is that bad ... except this one kid ... but he's crazy ... O_o

some are butts some r not

Not all guys are mean... someguys are mean I've had guys be really means to me but most guys are really nice. I would assume that if they're mean that they either hate wewe au Really like wewe and don't know how to onyesha it :)

I wouldn't say all boys.

I think your ex is being mean to wewe because he either still likes you, au he misses the times wewe guys spent together-and trust me theres a big difference. But the guy is trying to cover it up so he's uigizaji like a complete jerk-off in hopes that no one will see through his game. Lucky for you, I do.

Trust me on this though, just ignore him.

some guys find it hard to talk of how they feel when they hurt, and its easier to say the words to hurt another, and to onyesha feelings isnt a sign of a good guy, got to be tough strong and macho, dont have to talk much. but most guys when they get older and have daughters we realise, how we were, and there is no way that is going to happen to our daughters. and for a guy to let his gf now of himself, can lead to betrayal at times of parture. samson and delilah. blame is easier than acepting the responsibility of acceptance of the wrong. its easier to say its your fault, SOME will say they are wrong and makeups can begin to mend two broken hearts, to either become freinds au partners au to part as mature persons to go their seperate ways.;-]

The guys've a very evil and mean side, but usually they're very kind.

maybe they are just jealous of wewe have wewe moved on that could b why

Well sum arnt meen. But sum are complete punda HOLES! not all but sum. But why. Cuz they have no other idea how to act

Because they are jerks some times

THERE MEANISS IS JUST ANOTHER WAY OF SAY I LIKE au I STILL LIKE YOU

Not all of them are, ugh. T_T

its because they like wewe sometimes au they just really hate you. My ex boyfriend and i fight all the time and sometimes out of know where he tells me he loves me. So I know he is being mean because he likes me still even tho he has a gf and he cheated on her with me like 5 times he doesnt break up with her because I say know every time he asks me out becuase I know he will break up with me and run back to his ex

Well that really sucks. Not all guys are like that, though I've met zaidi than my fair share of abusive men. Don't generalissimo all men into that because it will affect your mindst and offend others as well.

try to ignore him the best wewe can i just broke up with this boy and a mwezi later he asks me out again and I alisema yes just an saa zamani we were just about to hang up and he alisema bye,love wewe and I alisema upendo wewe too but was it an epic fail to forgive him?

Ok u r sexist and girls r not mean to guys and guys r not mean to girls.

Well if It's your Ex then No wonder he's mean to you.

Let me put it too wewe this way...

Some guys are stupid womanizers that have no regard for feelings other than his.They cheat. They're rude. They'll break your heart.

But most guys will upendo wewe zaidi than they could ever upendo anyone else. They'll hug you. They'll kiss you. But wewe must know that they'll also break your moyo if youre not careful.

Haha my ex was just f*cking harassing me a sekunde ago. But my current boyfriend is not mean so wewe might wanna add that some in there

first,your ex has been hurt.in any relationship,when wewe break up,you both get hurt.it dosnt matter who broke up with who,or why they did it.you both got hurt.second,if all guys are mean to you,listen to whan im about to say...look for others.not all guys are the same.do wewe hang with the punks?go talk with the poets.do wewe hang out with the mpira wa kikapu team?go hang with the swim team.you just have to change your MO.

it depends... i mean, some guys are mean to girls because they genuinely hate them and when wewe don't like someone, wewe tend to be mean to them. but sometimes, guys are mean to girls b/c they secretly like them, but they don't know how to express it.

some guys are mean to wewe because they like wewe they can say it in your face they onyesha wewe kwa being mean to wewe and getting their Marafiki to hit wewe a something au doing something crazy once a boy liked me and all he did was be mean to me so after he told his friend that he like me and his friend told me and now i knew that he liked me

hujambo one of my Marafiki told me that a guy hurts wewe au is mean to u just cause he loves wewe a lot :p

Guys all start out nice, then after enough girls them like they're worthless, they start treating girls back the same way.

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