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Why do I have this feeling that my ex will come crawling back to me?

We broke up at the beginning of April and we didn't talk until the middle of may, he sent me a message on Facebook and i replied and after I sent that he didn't reply back and he was making it obvious that he was ignoring me, so I cut off all contact with him. But when he broke up with me(this was back in April) he alisema he hopes he's always going to have me and stuff, like obviously he wanted to stay in touch. Also he was horrible to me in the relationship, he treated me like shit. So I feel good about getting rid of him, but why do I have this feeling he's going to come back to me?
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PLEASE NOTE: This swali is a mwaka old. Any "advice" aliyopewa to RnBStar13 is now moot, as we do not even know how this turned out (???) although I suppose we can still discuss. I saw someone comment, I suppose they realised and deleted. It is an interesting topic, au we can ripoti as outdated to have removed- doesn't matter, just know that this person may not still even be on fp.
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141516 said:
mine came back to me he loves me maybe urs loves u
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posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
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I doubt he loves me with the way he treated me :/ he was lovely to me at the start then turned horrible. But I just have this feeling he'll come back :/
RnBStar13 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
tswizleswifty said:
I had a bf who was a football player and the hottest guy in my grade but when we started dating he kept sending me txts saying "i dont want to tarehe u any more" than 2 days later he asked me out. That was one of my first bf so i just went along with it. But he started to do it over and over again. I moved schools and weve never seen each other since. I realized how terrable he treated me and i stoped missing him. I now know he was just toying with my emotions. So if he is crawling back after he treated wewe wrong, take it from me, unless hes changed he will probaly doit again
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posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
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Thank wewe :) and tbh I don't think he'll ever change.
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Hinata-Snow said:
maybe because he believes you'll forgive him. and take my advice: don't.
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Oh trust me, I won't lol. He blew it :)
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yannaybean said:
cause he is in upendo with u
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posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
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If he was in upendo with me then why did he treat me badly?
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JBfan516 said:
What's kind of funny in a weird kind of funny not like funny haha funny is that ive been feeling the same way about one of my exs. I think it's just that ur nervous about him wanting to get back together with wewe bcuz he treated u so horribly. Obviously u really liked him au u wouldve broken up with him earlier then it happened so dont really worry about it too much. He may just have mixed feelings about u but as long as u stand ur ground and dont take him back if the opportunity comes up, ull be fine
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posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
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Thank wewe :)
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Karthigesh said:
wewe have this feeling because women know, women have this intuition to somehow roughly assume what a guy is going to do. Speaking as a guy, most men do not appreciate the women they are with UNTIL they lose them, when they do, they will want to crawl back.

The tough part is figuring out if he TRULY deserves a sekunde chance, au is he using wewe as an OPTION rather than a priority. I can see your feeling towards him are pretty clear, so if he does indeed come running back, tell him wewe had your chance and wewe blew it, and I am meant to be with someone else who can upendo me like no one else can. Thanks for the memories and I wish wewe the best in your future.

If wewe tell it to him like this, he will be blown away at how classy wewe managed to respond and he would be too awestruck and he will just back away. A lady is a powerful creature, use your words and your emotions to really make an impact...
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posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
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Thank you! I WILL say that :)
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NicoDiAngelo4 said:
ohmygosh, wewe just practically stated one of my life moments with my ex bf. (and he did end up coming back, and unfortunatly i alisema yes) and as tempting as it is to say yes, just say no. if he treats wewe like shit, wewe dont wanna go back to that. it only leads to problems.....please, learn from my mistkes and say no!

sorryy i suck at giving advice, but i hope this helps! good luck!
xoxo
haleyy
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posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
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Thank you! I will say no :) and tbh he'll never change, even if he came back saying he's changed I still wouldn't take him back. No it really helped! and it's so weird how that's happened to wewe too ^^ and thank wewe xoxo
RnBStar13 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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No problem! And ikr? Glad it helped!! Xoxo haleyy
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xenriquegrl said:
It's watt guys do. For some reason they have a weird way of expressing their feelings. But he's not gonna come back to wewe if u make it clear to him that u don't wanna start another relationship with him.

It's great that u are avoiding him and if he crawls back to you, just give him a firm ''no'' and avoid him. But if u still want to keep in touch with him, that's ok too. Just don't go back into it no matter how much u pity him cuz he'll just start all over again!
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suzzan11 said:
May be its because he was your true love.I know how difficult it could be to you.But now wewe can start your journey toward your success without him
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