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Why does upendo hurt? Can wewe be hurt and still love?

I can forgive but i wont forget and that hurts so now I start to think...
 latinlover posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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isabelle_905 said:
Real upendo doesn’t hurt, kiddo. Real upendo is what makes all the bad crap in your life seem that much zaidi bearable. upendo is intoxicating, irrational, overwhelming, illogical... It sets your senses on moto and makes wewe do things wewe would’ve never done was it not for that other person. upendo blinds wewe and makes wewe see the whole world in a new clear, beautiful way at the same time.

It’s the absence of upendo that hurts; it’s the falling out of upendo au not having upendo au not having reciprocal upendo that hurts.


Hopefully this isn’t for you, but I have to add this because some people might need to hear it over and over again:

"I've alisema before, upendo doesn't hurt, and if a man hits wewe once, he will hit wewe again." ~ Oprah Winfrey
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 Real upendo doesn’t hurt, kiddo. Real upendo is what makes all the bad crap in your life seem that much zaidi bearable. upendo is intoxicating, irrational, overwhelming, illogical... It sets your senses on moto and makes wewe do things wewe would’ve never done was it not for that other person. upendo blinds wewe and makes wewe see the whole world in a new clear, beautiful way at the same time. It’s the absence of upendo that hurts; it’s the falling out of upendo au not having upendo au not having reciprocal upendo that hurts. Hopefully this isn’t for you, but I have to add this because some people might need to hear it over and over again: "I've alisema before, upendo doesn't hurt, and if a man hits wewe once, he will hit wewe again." ~ Oprah Winfrey
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;( i never knew luv could be so deep
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Is that true
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no idea..never dated before!!!
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jacob4ever57 said:
There are lots of reasons why upendo hurts. Maybe wewe just broke up with someone and wewe still upendo them, au maybe wewe haven't seen the one wewe upendo in so long that your just pining for them. (Me at the moment) But yes wewe can be hurt and still be in love. It's possible. Very possible. upendo will hurt at some points, but it's wourth it! It may not seem like it while your hurting, but once wewe find that special someone you'll always know that it was wourth it! ;)
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 There are lots of reasons why upendo hurts. Maybe wewe just broke up with someone and wewe still upendo them, au maybe wewe haven't seen the one wewe upendo in so long that your just pining for them. (Me at the moment) But yes wewe can be hurt and still be in love. It's possible. Very possible. upendo will hurt at some points, but it's wourth it! It may not seem like it while your hurting, but once wewe find that special someone you'll always know that it was wourth it! ;)
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me at the moment to haha
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EverybodyLies said:
all the dang time.
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emo_grl_4eva said:
I know upendo hurts and I know what it feels like.
I was in upendo with this guy whom I did upendo but he let lust ruin it and in a way he did abuse me slighty. I've felt worthless ever since and every time I look at him au someone mentions him it opens up old wounds and I have to hold it together au else i'd break down to the floor holding myself for support. Even though I'm with someone whom I want to spend the rest of my days with I still feel what I felt before and I dont think anything will ever change that. SO when wewe upendo expect pain.
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cutegurl211 said:
so many guys lyk me...........but the guy i lyk,doesnt even bother to look at me au even say hi.....if i smile at him, he makes a face.
it was when he kissed another girl, dat i found out he was already in luv with sum1 else ;(
i almost cry every night beacause of this.
did i HAVE to see them kiss? ;(
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but i really think i still want him..........
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angel-of-power said:
upendo hurts cause wewe can upendo someone and they will ignor u.
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i totally agree
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juliet_fan said:
i dont know why but upendo hurts and wewe still can upendo and hurt, it may not be always true that upendo hurts but i'm speaking on experience upendo can hurt if it gets the chance.
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I've been in upendo with this guy and he pretending as if he was in upendo with me for two years. I didn't realize it at the time untill I was siting in my room one night and I called him just to see how he was doing, only to hear his answer that's your reason for call.my reason for telling u this is that when u upendo someone no matter how much ur hurting ur upendo for that person over come ur pain at time...I let my upendo for that person over come my pain.. And feel that's why am still hurting up till this day.
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Deans_Girl said:
upendo isnt upendo without hurt.

upendo is like magic because wewe are able to experience every emotion; happiness, frustration, pleasure and hurt. with out feeling pain, how do wewe no there is pain to feel. pain lets us know we have a reason for sorrow, a reason for life and , A REASON FOR LOVE
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felicity1111 said:
a person can break your moyo but wewe can still upendo them and its almost imposible to fogive and forget especialy for girls
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TeamSethRocks said:
wewe can be hurt and still love
i asked this guy out but never got and answer
this girl whos supposed 2 be 1 on of my best Marafiki got dunped and 2 weeks later asked the guy i just asked out
and he alisema yes
:'(
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ljsb said:
If I like someone and they hurt me i don't forgive them because if they break my moyo it still hurts but only if i really liked them...
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lizzietwilight said:
Loving people hurts because wewe upendo them
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cherry7878 said:
upendo hurts cuz u use ur moyo to feel and theres noway to bounce back from a broken heart
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booklover13 said:
upendo hurts because when it doesnt hurt, its the best feeling in the world...so there has to be something to even out all that good :)
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jeftelover said:
ugh!sometimes i hate love!really hurts.
once i started to cry cause my boyfreind
kissed another girl...:(
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autumnstander said:
i know upendo dose hurt and yes u can be still in love
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cuddly-pandas said:
Sometimes upendo can hurt because wewe feel bad
things and wewe upendo the person so much, wewe don't
understand how to deal au control the things you
feel for them.
Of course wewe can still upendo even when you're
hurt. If wewe really upendo the person, wewe can live
and get through really tough times wewe experience
and still love.
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Hinata-Snow said:
upendo hurts. Period. But upendo can happen anyway, that's what makes it wonderful.
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xenriquegrl said:
Yes wewe can still upendo and hurt at the same time. But get the hurt out of you, because it is not good 4 u. kwa your problem, something serious is keeping u from living. But their's always hope and u will upendo again.
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Saku15 said:
There're so many reasons why upendo hurts. First of all: When wewe upendo someone and he/she dosen't upendo wewe back.
The sekunde most painful thing in upendo when your lover goes with an other boy/girl and lies about it.
The third is the break-up. When wewe don't think anyone but him/her and cries very much.

I was in upendo but I didn't feel any of these options.
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sehdt said:
upendo hurts when wewe upendo someone but they can not au will not upendo wewe back.
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hellokittykat93 said:
anyone can do anything but it is hard to upendo again after wewe have been hurt
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prity10 said:
upendo is a mixture of alot of things and one of them is hurt and pain if u want to expirence upendo then u have to go trough the pain upendo gives u............ yes u can be in pain and still upendo that is only called true upendo if u forget ur upendo becoz its too painfull then u cant call it love...

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Rachael-111 said:
upendo does hurt and u feel that pain in ur moyo until u find someone new
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Sinna_Hime_chan said:
Of course wewe can hurt and be hurt and still Love. (example: My family: time & time again have hurt me.)The resilience of upendo to still be able to Forgive (even if maybe they do not deserve at all) and to upendo no matter what is the miracle of LOVE. :)

and Thank God!
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 Of course wewe can hurt and be hurt and still Love. (example: My family: time & time again have hurt me.)The resilience of upendo to still be able to Forgive (even if maybe they do not deserve at all) and to upendo no matter what is the miracle of LOVE. :) and Thank God!
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nasiruae said:

no idea..never dated before!!!
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 no idea..never dated before!!!
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sweettomato said:
Hard times.. Hard struggles.. Broken trust.. Broken hopes..
Is what happens in relationship.
And sometimes, it's just too much to continue..
Breaking down.. Giving in.. Giving up..
But we still want them in our life, so we tried to not cut, to not leave.. To conquering "Misunderstanding" and To upendo them still..
Because wewe both know... wewe never gonna be strong without each other!
Tommorow wouldn't be worth to wait!
and wewe neither living nor dead without them!
wewe will give them power to destroy you, but..
wewe trust them once again... not to onyesha u How painful upendo can be!
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 Hard times.. Hard struggles.. Broken trust.. Broken hopes.. Is what happens in relationship. And sometimes, it's just too much to continue.. Breaking down.. Giving in.. Giving up.. But we still want them in our life, so we tried to not cut, to not leave.. To conquering "Misunderstanding" and To upendo them still.. Because wewe both know... wewe never gonna be strong without each other! Tommorow wouldn't be worth to wait! and wewe neither living nor dead without them! wewe will give them power to destroy you, but.. wewe trust them once again... not to onyesha u How painful upendo can be!
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ZarieViana said:
Yeah one can be hurt and upendo again coz Lost upendo must be forgotten no matter how hard it may appear
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cachuira said:
Y dose living zones one hurts so bad
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writer67 said:
true upendo doesn't hurt, it breaks down barriers, and it can change many things, if we are willing to listen to your heart. im glad u r able to forgive, as u try to mend ur moyo , but it obviously wasn't ment to b , n u r very wise to have made the positive step, the mature step * so try not to think too much, have some time for u, go out with friends, buy urself something, give ur self a new hairdo. true upendo is being strong enough to b able to let it , au them go, it may hurt like no tomo, but if it was true upendo it will b back, but u will b wiser. a holiday may b on the cards. for upendo takes a lot of work, but from two, that are equal, upendo is a language all of its own, true upendo no words r req, it clicks, so stand proud, your moyo does know love. with luck u will find ur soul mate, but let the past go.u r strong enough to let it go, so blooming well done, proud of wewe * peace be with you)

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