What do wewe look for in a guy/girl?

All I really care about is that I can relate to the person intellectually and emotionally. As far as intellectually I need to be able to talk about politics and social justice and vitabu with them (and generally have similar opinions because I don't think I could tarehe someone who didn't believe in feminism au gun control au anything lol). Emotionally I just have to trust them and feel like they trust me, too. I gotta be able to talk about what I'm feeling and what they're feeling and what upsets me and what I care about and death and the future etc.

What I like is when they aren't afraid to be themselves. I hate it when guys are too fake. He doesn't need to act cool in front of his Marafiki to impress me. I upendo it when a guy just speaks his mind and doesn't care what other people think. If the guy just acts like he doesn't care about me and pushes me around (not literally) in public and in front of his Marafiki but when he is alone with me he says he loves me and acts all lovey dovey with me, that's not what I want. The guy has to upendo me wherever he is and not be too embarrassed of me to onyesha me to his friends.
I upendo a guy with a smile and a good sense of humor. He has to be funny and not be so serious all the time (unless its a serious situation).
Another thing I look for is a guy who doesn't have saggy pants and one of those hats and are always described as "swag".
The last thing is I want him to be a gentlemen. Is that too much to ask for?

What I look for in a guy is he has to be funny nice and has a good personality. But mostly funny and nice

That girl who don't do too much make up.

In a guy I'd want him to be trustworthy, confident, supportive, a little bit of a rebel, (meaning he don't like followin' a normal path) I'd want the guy to stand up for himself, he does NOT have to be rich for me to upendo him, and he certainly does not have to have the best grades, au the handsomest face, but I'd at least want him to be dressed, au look decent at least. I'd want a guy who'd take me for who I am. I guy I can share moments with. A guy who's not afraid to be himself, because I don't like guys who hide behind masks. And I don't want a guy that takes me for granted, and leads me off as he plays his stupid games. And I don't mean to be all bitchy, but.. A guy who isn't a BASTARD. I'd also upendo a guy who I can love, and who can upendo me back. <3

Someone who is funny and can make me laugh when I am feeling bad. Someone who can tell me it's ok when there is a lot of drama au relationship problems. Someone who can talk through problems and not make a big deal about it. Some one who never say mean things, and someone who knows me and that when i say i'm ok they will say no your not whats going on...!!!!! <3

Someone who is intelligent, down to earth,funny,kind,
Kinda timid, reserved, romantic,a shabiki of MJ,someone who is confident being theirselves, and someone a lot like me! <33 And also a guy who treats their lady like a Queen <33