Have wewe ever fallen in upendo with someone wewe don't want to be in upendo with?

Have wewe ever start to have feelings for somebody who wewe don't wanna even like? wewe want to hate that person but wewe cant help it because wewe end up falling for them? Like saying "you really get on my nerves. I want to hate wewe some much. But I cant. For some stupid reason, I really like wewe and I cant hate you" au saying something like "I upendo you. Even though I don't want to upendo you" or" even though I wanna hate you". Does your moyo play tricks on wewe like that? Making wewe fall in upendo with somebody wewe don't wanna even like? Like one of those love-hate relationships?