One mti kilima Could wewe forgive your best friend for cheating with your boyfriend?

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I would have to be in that situation
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No
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Yes
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It depends,if I also cheated with her boyfriend in the past :)
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xQueenOfHearts picked I would have to be in that situation:
I don't know.
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OMGitsBrooke picked I would have to be in that situation:
forgive yes, but never forget
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abs07 picked Yes:
Well if you're talking about the same circumstances as Breyton had in season 1, to be honest I wouldn't be naive enough to get myself into the situation Brooke did. I woulda noticed that Luke and Peyton were more than a fling - a lot more. I woulda backed off instead of jumping in after they barely called it quits. But if my boyfriend and I were in love with each other and he never had a past with my best friend, then it would take me a long time to trust my best friend again if she were to just up and do that. If they did it cause they were in love, I'd be more inclined to forgive her - especially if she ended the affair because she loved me more (as Peyton did in 115). If it was all for a fling, it would take me a much longer time to get past that; and I dunno if our friendship would ever be the same again...
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gracery picked No:
I don't think I'd ever be able to trust her again.
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angiii7 picked Yes:
If she was in love with him before I was yeah ;)

But if not, NO.
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SG1-090 picked Yes:
If they were in love i'd forgive both of them if it was just a fling - I'd eventually forgive my best friend depending on how good a friend she had been in the past.
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dermer4ever picked No:
no way idc if they were in love or not it just something you do not do at all and i know she is my best friend but being my best friend she should know better and its a violation of the girl code.
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It depends, on the situation.
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jemgrl323 picked No:
I really don't know... but I don't think so. It definitely depends on the situation but I just can't imagine any situation in which I would be able to forgive a friend for betraying my trust like that. It is so hard to trust people... trust is so fragile and unfortunately many people have an easy time lying. It's such a scary thing to trust someone--- you never really know if they are telling you the truth, it's all about believing them even when there is no proof. So when you get proof that the person betrayed you... I just don't think I could ever trust him or her again.
I might be willing to try to move forward... and maybe even to make amends. But will I ever forgive them for their actions? Probably not. Will I ever forget how much they hurt me? Definitely not.

I can't have a relationship...whether it's romantic or platonic or familial...with someone I cannot trust.

And if my friend was in love with my boyfriend... well, it's not really an excuse because I would be in love with my boyfriend as well. The difference is I would be acting on my love by being honest and caring and demonstrating my love, while my best friend would be acting on his or her love by being deceitful. And believe it or not-- people in love don't need to act deceitful... there are other ways to deal with a difficult situation, that still might cause some pain and heart ache, but do not require lying, cheating, betrayal, and distrust.
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mswaldass picked No:
Forgive in the way of not fighting anymore, but I would never be abel to trust her again. And our relationship would sure as hell never be the same again. Thus not forgive. It's enough that I can barley trust anyone.
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Dansea08 picked It depends,if I also cheated with her boyfriend in the past :):
If I never betrayed her like that then I will have a hard time forgiving her and understanding why she did it and why he did it. But in the case with the Breyton/Lucas situation...and if I were in Brooke's place I would obviously be upset but I wouldn't have been in the relationship to begin with.Lucas and Peyton obviously had something and she knew it and decided to ignore it and get with him.Just because Brooke was dating Lucas didn't mean his feelings for Peyton got erased. Brooke was incredibly naive and ignorant but still her friend did betray her.If the brathan sex video didn't occur than I would understand her anger and bitterness of Peyton.But since she also betrayed her...2 betrayals,BOTH have a right to be outraged,both have to apologize and both have to forgive the other.

But in the real world I would hope the friends I have are truly good and loyal and would come speak to me about it rather than act on impulse or need. If my best friend really had feelings for my boyfriend before I got into the relationship with him and she told me(then I would have some fault if they were to cheat) and if I didn't know then..(that would mean I was not a good enough friend and our friendship wasn't even strong enough)
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carambolas picked It depends,if I also cheated with her boyfriend in the past :):
Since this is in the OTH spot, this answer fits the most. I also agree with everything Dansea08 said!
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Rolemodel2011 picked No:
I don't know, but I don't think so.
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VictoriNoRisuu picked I would have to be in that situation:
I totally agree with what abs07 said.
If they were in love - probably yes. Besides, is not like she raped my boyfriend,yes? You need two to cheat. So it's not only her fault. I think that I'd be more hurt by what my boyfriend did then my friend. If my friend falls in love, I can't blame her. But boyfriend is supposed to love me, so he's not only a cheater, but also a liar. It would be easier fo forgive her then him.
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bright_angel picked I would have to be in that situation:
What do you want to prove from this pick??
The most people don't answer what they will do.
Some people will answer YES because they are in Leyton team.
Other will answer NO because they are in Brucas team!

Be honest I am a Brucas fan but my answer is real! I want my BF be happy! And if her and him love truly each other no just sex I will forgive them! After some time of course!
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Jessica4695 picked I would have to be in that situation:
TOTALLY agree with bright_angel on the first thing.

but me ? nah , i wouldn't forgive her - I couldn't.
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leytonfaan_18 picked Yes:
Forgive, never forget though.
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Lisiii picked It depends,if I also cheated with her boyfriend in the past :):
But I don't really think I could forgive her... / =
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OMGitsBrooke picked I would have to be in that situation:
i knew this would turn into a "brucas vs leyton" thing hahaha
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Dansea08 picked It depends,if I also cheated with her boyfriend in the past :):
^^ Well once the person who made this pick put Brooke icons and breyton icons,she's indicating of the breyton/Lucas situation.I am not sure if she met if its the exact same situation as in the OTH storyline or in real life.Either way at least no one is arguing! :)
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OMGitsBrooke picked I would have to be in that situation:
yes but still, you can't be serious about comparing what Brooke and Nathan did to what Peyton and Lucas did. That's just ridiculous
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Forgive in the way of not fighting anymore, but I would never be abel to trust her again. And our relationship would sure as hell never be the same again. Thus not forgive. It's enough that I can barley trust anyone.

well said,S!
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i feel like this questions been asked soo many times lol.
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