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Can somebody help me?

Theres a girl[I will call her W] in my class. (I am in 6th grade, going into 7th) My friends[Q and R] talk negitive stuff about her and I became her friend after them. Now, [W] will NOT leave me alone. [W] is touching [not touching touching, touching] me, poking me, and blowing her stinky breath in my face asking me does it smell nice.

[Q and R] Say that she lies, don't be her friend and shes annoying. I'm starting to think that. But since November, [W] has been talking s*ht about [Q and R]. So now, I don't know what to do.


Should I be Marafiki with [W, Q and R]?
Should I be Marafiki with only [W]?
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Only Marafiki with [Q and R]?


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BTW, Theyre all girls.
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BabyBlud said:
I'm not going to tell wewe who wewe should be Marafiki with as that's a decision wewe should make for yourself.
But if i was in your position i would look carefully at each friend and think back to which one(s) backed wewe up and kept your head high whenever wewe felt down. Think about the one wewe trust the most, not just in keeping secrets, but also to help wewe in your time of need.
What wewe have to think about is this - if wewe befriend one, and the other two fall out with you, then they weren't true friends.
True Marafiki wouldn't mind who wewe hung out with as long as wewe still made time for them. And if they were really good Marafiki they would try to get to know this girl themselves.
However bitchiness and cat-calling among Marafiki is never good as it can lead to big trouble and even the loss of a friendship forever. If all 3 of your Marafiki are fighting and you're in the middle of it, i suggest wewe invite them all over for a movie night au something, get them all in the same room, sit them down and talk to them. Tell them about how they're fights are making wewe feel and explaining to them how wewe want each and every one of them to carry on being your friend, even if they don't want to be Marafiki with each other. if they can't accept that and tell wewe to choose between them both, then they aren't true Marafiki in my opinion.
wewe must tell this W friend of your's that poking is extremely irritating and she has to stop it as wewe don't want to fall out with her. Also if she suffers from smelly breath just tell her in private that she may have halitosis and to see her dentist about getting that fixed. brushing her teeth after every meal, flossing and cleaning her tongue would help too. However if she's doing it just to annoy wewe wewe have to put your foot down and tell her wewe don't appreciate it. If she carried on poking and sticking her breath in front of your face the time is to take it seriously, sit her down, explain you're at the end of your tether and wewe won't stand up to it anymore. Tell her to quit and if she doesn't then unfortunately she wouldn't be a good friend either as Marafiki respect each others space and needs.
Hope that helps hun X
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life_is_a_dream said:
well thats kind of typical in middle school, if i were wewe i would pick who wewe feel the most comfortable with, i mean do wewe feel like wewe could tell W all your darkest secrets without her telling others au without talking shit about wewe behind your back?
thats how i would pick, hope this helps!!
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adultswimperson said:
This usually happens in middle school when people get bullied.
if i were u i'd test people out to see how nice they are and kwa the end of the week see how the results turn out.
try it out and see if it works.
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lovelyass said:
ive got my own problems^(:
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megan_12345609 said:
ditch [W] stay with [Q & R]
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TDItwin said:
whydont wewe try get everyone to be Marafiki i mean if W is saying mean stuff about Q and R maby its cuz she dosent know them verry well also if she keeps talking like that why dont wewe stick up for them i mean wewe dont have 2 be a puppet
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yoshifan1976 said:
Just be Marafiki with who you're most comfortable with. wewe know the ones who like the same hobbies as wewe do. wewe just choose your own Marafiki and hopefully those friendships will be everlasting. XD
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orangeturnip said:
can somebody help you?....not me
im Lost
maybe:
wewe should be Marafiki with Q cos he got all da gadgets!!!
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Confuzzle said:
Okies...I had this situation too, breathe in...breathe out.


Start kwa saying to W "Whoa...back it up, dude, personal space." Then, when either badmouths the other, say
"Come on, she's my friend. Really, she's [adjective]."

wewe should be in peace then...relax.
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GaGaBoi said:
Dress Slutty and you'll be fine.
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Monrose said:
"W" sounds like a bitch, drop her.
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