What are your maoni about divorce?

Statistics onyesha that in America 9/10 marriges end in divorce.

I don't see the point in marrige to be honest.
If wewe upendo someone, wewe shouldn't NEED to have to onyesha them with being bonded for life that wewe care. They should already know.


My mom and dad were together for 19 years, not married, just together, had 6 kids. me being one of them.

They are not together anymore, but they don't hate eachother and never had to fuss over a divorce because they were never married.

It's just easier without marrige.

To be quite honest i don't particularly like it. Not because i think it's wrong au anything, after all if two people decide they no longer upendo each other then why not? Better to have divorce then spend the rest of your lives miserable. But i don't personally like it because my parent's got divorced when i was 6 and i didn't see my mother for ten years after that.

However some religions don't like divorce, so it depends on what background wewe come from whether wewe believe in divorce au not.

Also couples who get divorced should take some advice and don't do what my parents did. Just because wewe don't upendo each other any zaidi doesn't mean wewe have to bitchy au fall out with each other. If wewe have children it's especially important to talk to them about it together and make them understand that just because they don't upendo each other doesn't mean they don't upendo their children. Divorcees should be open and honest with each other and give each other rights to their children. Even if one parents moves away they still have parental responsibility to that child imo and shouldn't just fuck off without telling them.

But to conclude cos i've just realised the anger is coming up - no it's not wrong, but it can be disastrous to those who aren't completely involved and who should be loved and cared for enough to be respected and told.

I don't think divorce is right. It just seems to me that marriage is about true love, and if there is true love, there would be no need to get a divorce anyway.

well if dont work out, it dont work out. my mom was divorced from my 3 half siblings dad. he just wasn't right for her.

Well, so long as its before wewe have children. If wewe have kids i dont like it because it can hurt the kids emotionally, but other wise i dont mind. Also, it doesnt always hurt the kids but its a risk.

I think its right. Some people end up getting married too young and then realize the spark is gone. It also can solves problems. au it can be like my parents. They mgawanyiko, baidisha up cause my dad is gay. They both weren't happy and now they are.

I read somewhere that 60 percent who marry end up getting a divorce. I think divorce is fine. I think it's really horrible if the two people absolutely hate each other and tell that to their kids. Sometimes divorce is what's best for the family

Yeah, wewe don't NEED a marriage to onyesha that wewe upendo them, but I think it's a sweet idea, don't wewe think? I mean, I know I still want my 'big day'. Divorce... I don't care. It causes too much hate in the world. But I wouldn't say I look down upon those who do. I mean, yeah, if wewe decide wewe don't like the person, why be forced to stay with them? Honestly. But I do encourage marriage, unless wewe don't want to ever be intimate (hint). Well, I guess wewe could still... *cough* do that *cough* but it's against the ten commandments. Well, sin can be forgiven, I must say. Well, I don't have a problem with divorce, and that's basically what this swali is asking of me... so yeah. (I'm sorry for the rant.)