Dump him. Maybe if it was some girl I didn't know I could find it in my moyo to give him another chance (that is if he even WANTED another chance). But if he was willing to betray me with someone I am close to, he's outta here. And I'd most likely stop being Marafiki with the girl.
At the moment, the closest thing to a boyfriend is my male dog (not in a creepy way). So if my friend came over and my dog was following her around, I wouldn't consider it cheating, I'd just warn her that his breath is terrible.
my boyfriend chris was cheating on me with my best buddie nikita and he kissed her wen she didn't want to and I was going out with him (ive been out with chris 5 times, the first relation ship was 5 weeks, and the other 4s were just days)and chris alisema "don't tell rhianne (me), keep it as a secrer" and she straigh away told me, shes a good mate to me! the inayofuata siku i didnt really do anything to chris, but he kept on asking me do wewe upendo me and stuff and i replied to him do wewe upendo me and he alisema yes so i alisema yes. apparently, he dosent like my bff any zaidi cos she wouldnt kiss him, so im his only girlfriend now, i think...
Bf: oh your so cute. I loved our tarehe last night. BFF: ya wasn't it your such a good kisser Me: what?! That's it! We're braking up! And you! (to my best friend) how could wewe do this to me? I thought we were friends! **stomps away and starts to cry**
Step 1. Call him. Step 2. Tell him we're over. Step 3. Go to his house with a baseball bat. Step 4. Hit him until he apologizes. Step 5. Call best friend. Step 6. Start crying and yelling bila mpangilio swear words. Step 7. Never associate with people again.
I'd be like: Well if wewe don't want au need me, I guess I feel the same. A real man never cheats.
But I couldn't give up my best friend, no matter what. It wouldn't be like she was the one who dumped me, it would be my boyfriend who did, so screw him, not her. Life's too short to cry over boys who don't care...life's too short to cry over boys in general.