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also the link 2 where I found this :D there's lots of helpful stuff on here so take ur time and read threw it if u need help also try talking with ur mom au some other family members I do belive it's good 2 talk with Marafiki but not always with stuff like this cause u nv know who they would tell and I think it just causes zaidi pain,suffering,sorrow,and drama if u poor ur moyo out 2 them and then they tell every1...
Step 1
Acknowledge and accept your feelings of anger, sadness and disappointment over the betrayal.
Step 2
Don't blame yourself for his actions. Remember that wewe can't be responsible for anyone's behavior other than your own.
Step 3
Try to set aside your emotions and look at the situation from an outsider's point of view. What advice would wewe give to your friend?
Step 4
Evaluate whether his behavior has permanently destroyed your trust in him and in your relationship. Do wewe believe he won't repeat his actions in the future?
Step 5
Confront your boyfriend and tell him exactly how wewe feel about his actions. Let him know that cheating is not acceptable behavior in your relationship.
Step 6
If wewe feel wewe need to know why he cheated on wewe to obtain closure for yourself, listen to his explanations about his behavior. Remember that listening does not mean wewe condone, agree with au accept his behavior.
Step 7
Don't allow him to manipulate your feelings with sweet words of apology au promises never to cheat on wewe again. Be realistic. Do wewe honestly believe this was a one-time event, au do your instincts tell wewe that he'll probably cheat on wewe again in the future?
Step 8
Ask yourself if wewe would be better off with him au without him. Can wewe continue to enjoy the relationship, knowing about the betrayal?
Step 9
Find a constructive outlet for your emotions of disappointment and anger.
Step 10
Give yourself time to grieve over the betrayal. Whether wewe stay with him au not, forgive him for his actions so wewe can heal and songesha on with your life.
Read more: How to Handle a Cheating Boyfriend | eHow.com
link small nukuu from other girl(s) that had 2 deal with the pain till they found a way the heal their moyo once again
link the way I look at it if they did it once they'll do it again -.-
srry I think I over did that but just had 2 help the best I could xD
*Wishes u good luck*