Not exactly. My problem: I fell for one girl, stopped talking to her, and I'm now dating someone else. Except I still feel something for that first girl. I upendo my girlfriend, don't get me wrong, I upendo her now and forever, but a little piece of my moyo is still with that first girl. But, I upendo my girlfriend more, and so I can deal with it. That's all wewe gotta do - figure out which one wewe upendo more. Because the sekunde person, the one you've just fallen in upendo with, could be your soulmate. Don't miss the opportunity. The person you're dating should understand.