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ok, so i recently broke up with my boyfriend. We went out for one week at first because of a rumor about me cheating on him. Then, weeks later we got back together because he found out it was a lie. So we went out for three weeks. during those three week people was lieing about me to break us up be zak (the boyfriend) didn't believe them. Then this dude James (sonicTH111) threatened that if i dont have s*x with him, he would lie to zak say i cheated on him. he would ruin my whole life and eventually i would kill myself. Stupid of me, i didn't listen. two weeks later, he made a fake "conversation" that alisema that i did have s*x with him. he sent it to some people and it spread everywhere. when it got to zak, he believed it and he broke up with me. he alisema this time its perminant. it didnt matter how much i told him i didn't do anything, he wouldn't believe me; he would just say "right" au "sure" it broke my moyo because i was commited for a crime i didn't do. So today, (if i haven't already say this, we broke up yesturday [2/24/11]) we got back into another fight about the rumor. I was almost there getting him to see the proof that i was innocent, when his Gemerman ex girlfriend gonna barge in and ask for another chance. and i dont understand why he got back together because he broke his moyo BAD. she feel in upendo with another guy while they were dating (the first time) then SHE broke up with HIM and then she had s*x with james. so im so confused. PLUS she talked trash about him. she alisema he was "stupid" and "dumb" and "oh i should have never gone out with him because i didnt realize how stupid he was"

So now im on the ege of killing myself, becuz i have have 7 ex boyfriends and have had like 10 broken hearts. so now i dont know what to do anymore. I loved zak (and still do) with all my everything, and he got taken away from me kwa a perv and a whore. so now i dont know what to do anymore. so i need some advice!

~sorry the explanation is so long, i hope u too
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*I hope wewe took the time to read it, sorry for typos and the bf's user is zakbeck.
Ambrella_Hedgie posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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I read the whole thing and if wewe need help, then talk to someone. wewe can make it through tough times like this!
animegrl52p posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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i undersand ive never had a bf before but alot of my Marafiki hav. guys can be such dooshe bags. just keep ur head up and carry on :) ull find somebody better than him
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-sapherequeen- said:
Alright. Whenever I hear a girl say something like, "I upendo him so much! I can't live without him!" au "I will kill myself since he's out of my life!", it makes me want to smash my head against a brick ukuta over and over. And if not that, take her head and smash it over and over.

Why?
Two reasons;

1) It's simply the biggest crock of bullshit I'll ever out of a teenage girl's mouth.

2) I've been through that too. And to this day, it's an ugly story for me.

To summarize briefly; I met this boy, Andrew (temporary name) at a siku Camp during the summer when I was nine-years-old (Yes, nine). Andrew was a great kid to me, we did a lot of fun things together and (I'm assuming) enjoyed each other's company. Andrew was a pretty funny guy to me, and was almost always fun to be around. :)
Eventually, a mwaka later when we were at summer camp again, I grew a deep crush on him. But I never told him out of fear of how he'd react (Maturity was not really his best aspect, yet he was, like most of us, just a child back then).
Well, our friendship lasted until fifth grade. To briefly summarize that mess; Rumor spread about Andrew, Andrew was upset, a friend of his blamed me, Andrew believed him (I'm assuming it was a guy I know of), Andrew had a guidance counselor talk to me & confronted me a few times, I told the truth and alisema it wasn't me, he didn't believe me. And we stopped being Marafiki after the fifth grade. Then there was summer camp. And this is one of the reasons why I don't give my moyo to people easily;
According to others, he alisema the following; I'm ugly, I'm weird, I'm really rude, I have staring problems, I got him into detention, he hated me etc. And he and another girlfriend of his made fun of my lazy eye all summer according to a friend of mine. A guy I had a crush on at that very time was saying and doing all of this.
Pleasant, I know :)

But, one of the dumbest things I'll ever think of doing was this; Committing suicide. All because of Andrew. -_-

Mainly because,
Why end your life over a dumb boy?
No, why give up the life you've never even lived yet over a dumb boy?
Obviously, if he's walking away from you, whatever he alisema about being a true friend au boyfriend to wewe was false. To me, a boyfriend will treat wewe like that because of a stupid rumor and then go to another girl didn't care that much about wewe to begin with, if not at all.
What is there to sacrifice your life for?

My advice?
Don't give up living, because it's not worth it. I learned that about Andrew, myself, and my life later on, and I'm always feeling fortunate at some extent that I did.
I have so many pretty cool people (although I don't really see them), and so many opportunities to gain a pretty damn good future for myself. :)

And guess what?
wewe do too. :)

wewe have to songesha on if wewe must. It may feel like au possibly even be the hardest thing wewe can go through. But eventually, it's the right thing to do.

Because in the end, life re
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nice xD
missspooky posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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*sighs* Never mind my answer, fanpop cut a good portion of it off. Shows wewe how good people listen to moral lessons within one's past. -_-
-sapherequeen- posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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Thanks :)
-sapherequeen- posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
Mallory101 said:
Alright. Listen.
I've recently been heartbroken too, I know how wewe feel...but it's a boy. A Boy. B-o-y. Boy.
Boy.(n) Living being who screws around with girl's hearts because they know we don't want to lose them. Also, a living being which wewe should not kill yourself over.

7 exes? You.Have.No.Idea. A boy is a stupid reason to be on the urge of suicide. Plus, I really doubt wewe could go through with it.
Wanna talk it out? Message me.
Just remember to breathe.
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Yeah, Mallory101 says it perfectly. :) *BEST*
-sapherequeen- posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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Thank you(:
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teamalecdemetri said:
dont kill ur self over a guy. i know u upendo him, but just dont...... think about ur Marafiki and family..... how would they fell if u killed ur self. its okay. if u want to talk to me...... im all ears..... dont worry.... time will heal all of ur wounds. again u can talk to me:)
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posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
animegrl52p said:
All i have to say is ripoti the guy who made u break up (James). If u want, ill also ripoti him 2, okay. If he messes with one girl, its like he messes with all of us! wewe can talk to any girl and tell them whats wrong and they will help wewe through it.
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Wolfdreamer9 said:
1) Well your profaili says your 13...so that's a little young to be having sex...
2) 7 ex boyfriends...how long do your relationships normally last?? -_-
3) Don't kill yourself over a guy...
4) Take a break from guys for a while... relax women...lol

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posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
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lolz how do she have 7 evil ex...i mean boyfriends?
missspooky posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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*sigh* I fixed it....
Wolfdreamer9 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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lolz lolz lolz seven exes
siory posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
siory said:
he's not the only samaki in the sea try and get over him cause he doesn't upendo wewe if he did he'd believe you
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YA I AGREE WITH U.
teamalecdemetri posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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oohh i like those
siory posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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yeah its to dark
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saso_dei_hi said:
psh!please! instead of mourning,you SHOULD be kinda mad.After all,a GOOD bf would NEVER believe sum like that and if you're so extremely upset he should be able to see it.i say 4gt him, you've got enuf on your hands.Worry about school,you know...the place that actually helps wewe in the future...besides,I'm sure a cool kid,you find some1 soon enuf un
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shyboy77 said:
please don't hurt your self it's not worth it trust me wewe are better and smarter then the people who did that to wewe don't let theme get to wewe and just don't hurt your self if wewe need help heres an spot on this site it can help wewe maybe some one can help wewe here link
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LunaShay said:
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Sorry,I don't help out with the lovey dovey stuff..

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posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
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i really miss the old you....
missspooky posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
demonthief said:
U serious u gonna kill ur self over a stupid boy? dude, u havent even started ur life yet and u plan 2 end it? NO! Im sorry that wewe hzve been threw all that crap but still... NO COMMITING SUICIDE!!!!!!
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16falloutboy said:
It's a boy, just get over it, it's not like one of your family members died au somethin
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KrazyVampy18 said:
Don't kill yourself, please don't.
OKkthis guy wewe really are in upendo with right? Well this James dude sounds like an Asshole. A serious straight up a-hole. And tell Zak that wewe ARE telling the truth and demand for James to tell Zak the truth. If wewe really are in upendo with Zak and wewe are made to be then things will turn out alright in the end au maybe there is supposed to be another guy your supposed to end up with, who knows? But for now all wewe have to do is keep living. Don't let it steal your joy. And no matter how bad life gets just remember, in the end, things will be alright.
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goodman8 said:
Omg that is veary badd how could James do that I hope wewe happy again Zak migt know your telling the trufe soon an wewe get back togater maybe wewe havea not fond your sole mate yeta wewe will don't kill your self he is not wort that
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rapunzeleah123 said:
*facepalm*

Okay, while I do have some sympathy for you, that's a stupid reason to kill yourself. He's a frickin 13, 14 mwaka old BOY. wewe have a ton of life left.
He's obviously not worth the trouble. LET HIM GO, wewe moron.
Sorry for calling wewe a moron. Seriously, you're, what, 13?
Ugh, I guess I have anger issues. Seriously, though, I mean what I say.
7 boyfriends at 13? Wow.
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