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I HAVE THE WORST PARENTS IN THE WORLD!

No one has parents like me.
Today was basically the worst day of my life (and tommorow will be part 2)
I was walking down the corridors and I SEE MY DAD!
ugh:|
I had make-up on and my dad saw it.(my parents never let me wear make-up)
and I HAD THE BAD LUCK TO BE NEAR A GROUP OF GUYS!
(to normal parents this wouldnt be a problem but my stupid dad doesnt want me to talk to guys!)
and when he saw me he was like: "shouldnt you stay in class?" WDF ITS BREAKTIME!
and when I got home (dad told mum everything) my mum took my make-up and asked me for everything I did in class...and the prob.is tht I have messy notebooks ...and I usually write in papers (and I loose the papers ..but that's another story:P)
and then I told her calmly..I wish you would see yourselves.
they never gave me freedom! all my friends go out whenever they want to...can make-up as much as they want to! are really mean with they're parents...but they arent doing anything!
My mum controls my telephone and when she sees I called somebody she is mad...
THEY ARE THE WORST PARENTS POSSIBLE!
Now when my dad will come home...he will kill me.
Please help me.What should I do? I want to run away and never come back o.o
my mum was like: We aren't understanding?You'll see how understanding we'll be!
and she was like...from now on I will control you everywhere!and expect visits from us at school just to see what you're doing!
What did I even do?!
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A bold statement here on fanpop. I think alot of people here would like to argue with wewe about that.
Bond_Of_Fury posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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hey!may be ur parents is overprotective to u.try to make ur dad happy first kwa doing things he like and slowly get try to involve with him
ssolanki posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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Guys this swali super old. And she probably doesn't have this problem anymore why answer it and plus it's clear she's certifiable idiot.
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EmzLovesCheryl said:
Right.. I understand how you're feeling, why you're angry, but don't say wewe have the worst parents.

Your parents care about you, ok? Yeah, of course you're going to be pissed of with them, but don't say they're the worst. They could be A LOT worse.

They obviously just want to protect you. They're being so harsh because they care. Think yourself lucky wewe have parents who do care, because a lot don't. Some kids go through child abuse from their parents, they're the worst parents in the world, as they can't treat their own kids with respect and understanding.

Sure, you're embarassed, upset. But it will work out, it's not all that bad. wewe still have your frineds, you're parents do care, believe it au not. Don't run away, it will only make matters worse. Appreciate what you've got, and deal with the bad stuff, every family has bad stuff going on.
wewe know, some kids would kill for your parents, trust me. And don't protest against that, because its true, ok? Look at the good things in your life. wewe must have a pretty good life if this is the worst siku of your life, so be happy with what wewe have got, and deal with the bad stuff when it comes!

If you're really despressed, and it continues, wewe should talk to someone about it. But just tell your parents how you're feeling (within reason) and see how it goes. Don't run away though, that's just stupid. wewe have no need.
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posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
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I just wanted to say the same to her, but wewe aliiba my answer! XD I like it. <33
ShiningsTar542 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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15blondCurtis I'm glad to here it, I hope that you're happier now, and no problem. :) and siory, believe it au not they do care. most parents anyway, I can't voucher for all though, no.
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wewe took the words right out of my mouth xD *Votes best answer*
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MrOrange16 said:
Are they alcoholic? Do they abuse you?

If not, then wewe do not have the worst parents in the world.
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do ur parents do that 2 u?
demonthief posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
candygirl2011 said:
look..i'm gonna tell u my opinion..
I think they'r doning that because they really love..they care about u and ur life..they don't want u to be a bad girl..they want u to be the best..
Maybe yes they are doing this zaidi than it should be..maybe they don't always understand u..but try to talk with them..try to finish this with them..tell them how u feel and ask them why they r doing this..
Maybe they r doing this because they had problems when they were in your age they don't want u to get in..
And i'm gonna tell u something”there's no better place than ur home”..so don't ever try to run away..u don't know what will be waiting for u there..
In the end..all the parents in the world wish the best for there kids..
Hope i helped u:)
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and as gagaboi said..at lest u have parents..some kids cry out loud wishing they have..
candygirl2011 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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true.thankyou..it really did help me...I was pretty childish for saying it.
nessienjake posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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:))
candygirl2011 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
r-pattz said:
People like wewe make me want to wipe out my generation.
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Jeffersonian said:
*Rolls eyes* Sure different parents have different ways of behaving, but if they didn't upendo wewe they wouldn't care, meaning they're being the way they're being because they upendo you.
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deathroman13 said:
Wow, that's bad.

My parents are very good because they let me do practically everything.


I think wewe should talk with your parents and with the help of a professional about this matter.
maybe your psychologist at your school can help you?
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wewe are lucky.no...I dont really think I will ask my pyschologist at my school to help me...>.<
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GaGaBoi said:
Well, atleast wewe have parents kid.


Mine let me do whatever I like, not because it's what they think is right, it's zaidi becuase they can't control me lmao.
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ISABELLA92 said:
wewe do have the worst parentd ever! I send wewe my best wishes for you. I wouldn't run away though. That could make things worse. I'm sorry you're parents are so bad.
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thanks!I'll reconsider the "escaping" thing.I dont know yet,though:|
nessienjake posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
BellaCullen96 said:
Trust me, my parents are worse. Yours are doing it to protect you, they're just very careful. Maybe something happened to either one of them when they were younger au heard about something bad, and they're just paranoid and don't want wewe to get hurt.

Now with my parents... My mom freaked out when she thought I had a friend who was a lesbian au how I knew so much about bisexuality (I'm bi and haven't told her, for obvious reasons), she takes my phone and computer away every night because an automatic update on Facebook made her think that I was up at 3 AM, she constantly asks who I'm talking to when I'm on the computer au my phone, and zaidi stuff like that. My dad's a whole other story, but I won't get into that =P

And also, there are parents who are a lot worse than ours. Parents who beat their kids, neglect them, abandon them, abuse them, and more. So don't think yours are the worst in the world.
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posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
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My mum takes my phone and computer too:| Thanks for sharing,it did help me out actually.
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MasterOfFear said:
wewe really shouldn't say that. Even if your parents are horrible to you, there will probably always be kids who have parents much worse than yours. My father was an awful person, and my best friend has suffered some of the worst abuse i've ever seen, but we both can't just say we have the worst parents ever, because we don't know that to be true.
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posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
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true.I didnt express myself in the right way:|
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dodo_isgreetfan said:
i think most of parents are like that
i think they job to make our life that bad
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:))true.
nessienjake posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
darkness23 said:
If u ask me i think ur luckly to have a mom and dad....anylike me my step mom's BF is a right asshole. but at least we have sombody who looks after us.dont Run off ok u just tell them that u want to where make up just not alot and things thats what i would do if i had a mom and dad
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lois4 said:
my parents take my laptop away at 9:00 and won't let me watch TV until 8:00 and they've pinned 12's!!!! they make me do extra maths and force me to go to clubs!!
i thought i had the worst parents but not letting u wear make up OMG!!!!
when i'm angry with them i often look at picha of us when we were younger and happy!! it allways makes me feel better and not want to run away!!!!
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posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
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That's actually good parenting, getting wewe involved and not wanting wewe addited to social networking.
robothor1111 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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^true.
EmzLovesCheryl posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
-sapherequeen- said:
My stepfather was verbally abusive towards me and on one occasion held me against a door kwa my throat. And my mother didn't kick him out until six years later when he screamed at her.


But hey, if wewe think wewe have the worst parents in the world, instead I'll put a blog and write about all of the happy, joyous hours living with mine. :)
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*put a blog up
-sapherequeen- posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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wow... how old were you, and now?
15blondCurtis posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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He moved into my house at ten, the holding-me-against-the-door incident happened at fifteen, I'm now sixteen.
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xxXsk8trXxx said:
Do they beat you? Do they abuse you? Do they swear at you? Do they rape you?
No. wewe do not have the worst parents in the world.
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Rape, beating, and swearing all count as abuse.
MrOrange16 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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I know. I felt like being specific.
xxXsk8trXxx posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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siory they should be reported for that. xxXsk8trXxx is right, wewe should definitely tell someone, it needs to get sorted out.
EmzLovesCheryl posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
ninjacupcake88 said:
Your situation is bad, but don't ever say wewe have the worst parents. People are abused kwa their parents kwa being beaten, sworn at, and raped. Trust me darling, wewe don't have the worst parents, hell, yours aren't even too bad.
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robothor1111 said:
Don’t leave your home. If your parents are not hitting you, and are giving wewe chakula and clothes and shelter believe me, there is a lot worse out there. Running away is a bad idea. You’ll be labeled kwa your parents and your local police department as a trouble maker and that will stay with wewe for a long time. Be mature about this, and listen to them. They are your parents.
I am eighteen, and a friend of mine just ran away a few months ago. She dropped out of school seven months before we are to graduate, and will never even get a diploma. Believe me, no matter how hard it seems, in the long run wewe need to stay with your parents, at least until wewe are an adult and can live on your own.

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TDIlover226 said:
My mother used to pull my hair. She used to slap me and take out her anger on me.
She stopped when she realised that she was doing something terribly wrong to me.
But now she's settled for calling me names like 'loser', 'bitch', and 'fucking cunt'. It still hurts just as much as getting my hair pulled. It hasn't solved anything. But I don't call her the 'worst mom in the world' just because she's done those things. She still cares about me deeply. She supports me, she's put a roof over my head and she's working two jobs to feed me. And I appreciate that very much.

From what information you've aliyopewa me, I can tell that your parents care about wewe very much. They worry about you.
They don't want wewe wearing makeup, probably because it attracts a lot of people. Sure, maybe wewe might want to attract certain people. But with wanted attention comes unwanted attention. Perverts. Pedophiles. Molesters. Rapists. It's all possible. They just worry that something awful could happen to you. Have wewe ever considered that?
They wanted to see your school work, probably to make sure that no one was distracting you. They want to make sure that you're listening in school so wewe can have good grades. with a good education comes a good job. With a good job comes a good life.
Being parents, they've probably got to take everything into consideration. They just want wewe to have a good life.


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shadowlover3000 said:
they are not bad parents, just caring. they care about wewe and are constantly on juu of wewe because they care! i am not allowed 2 wear makeup iether(not that i really wanted 2)and with the guy thing, they are just looking out 4 you, wewe do not know who wewe are hanging out with 4 all wewe know they could be serial killers. with school, just checking in 4 good grades my friend. and NO ONE should backtalk their parents!!! all they are are spoilled little brats who think that they can get away with anything!if wewe think that your parents are horible then look at the children whose parents do not care if the are out in the mitaani, mtaa dead! so think about that and see if i am right
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do not complain, there are worse!
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iluvllllll said:
Girl, wewe deserve a good slap. Grow up, your parents ain't bad at all. Talk about the worst. O_o
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I have only intentented on saying what has happened to me on that day.YOU THINK MY PARENTS DO NOTHING TO ME? I have tehnically been kicked out of the house kwa my mother and slept one night in the garden...in the cold.my mum has pulled my hair and hit my head over a wall,my dad has been beating me countlessly,and my parents ...neither of them allow me have the Marafiki I would want to have! they want to talk to every friend I make! they dont let me watch sinema because they think it contains too much adultery and crap like this but I probably wouldnt have wanted to share this thing online ! but because everyone now thinks my parents are just " wonderful" people...
nessienjake posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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O_o Thats not the worst. And I was responding according to your rant up there. Now, let me tell wewe again darling, wewe don't have the WORST parents. Meet mine O_o
iluvllllll posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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@nessienjake..wtf? they dont let wewe have friends, watch movies, and they beat you...*sneezez*,i'm sorry i'm allergic to bullshit! and they let wewe on the effing computer?!?!? wewe just menal
cleo-mermaid posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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mental*
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NikkiLovesMJ said:
Dang..that is so Bad..you should have seen how I suffer near my mom sometimes..she hits me and beats me even if Idk how to do something at Maths..basiclly I sometimes can't even look at my mom.that's why I can't wait to be 17 and songesha far away from my family..that's my wish...and yea my mom also insults me with mean things like calling me a fat pig {I'm not even fat} and she also calls me the worst child on this planet..you can't imagine how that makes me feel..and my mom was the reason why I got anorexic....It's a nightmare for me..Horrible..and plus I don't have Nobody kwa my side to lay my shoulder on..I often Hate my mom so Bad that I just wanna slap her...and because of her my nose isn't so normal,because when I was 4 years old she punched me in the face so hard that I start bleeding from my nose..and All she cares about is school school and school..She doesn't care about me,or how it makes me feel of what she's doing and saying to me...and once when she hit me,I ran Away from nyumbani and to the police she lied that I ran from nyumbani because her and my dad blocked my computer...and zaidi other..hurtful things.
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omg poor you!i'm so sorry:(
moonwalker64 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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My parents do that to.
nessienjake posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
siory said:
wewe wouldn't want to listen to my opinion but if wewe do here it is


if youre an only child and thats happening then its okay but if wewe aren't than wewe do have the worst parents in the world cuz if youre the only one they have then they upendo wewe and are being over protective but if they have other kids then they are just messing with wewe hujambo they can take it out on your brothers and sisters and as far as the school thing goes wewe are really unlucky my parents don't come to school even on the result siku au prize distributions. anyways it depends if youre an only child au not tell me and then i can give wewe advice if wewe need it and as far as running away from nyumbani goes thats stupid cuz no one would want a free loader in their house so live with it and wait for the siku wewe finnaly leave them behind
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adultswimperson said:
Both my parents could care less about what i do in life, i basically get to do anything i want and i have no standards.
your life may sound like a drag but some have to learn to live with it, they are being overprotective and not caring what wewe think.
your parents obviously wont let wewe do anything and your not standing up for your rights.
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Chaann94 said:
I don't know your age but when you're a grown-up and think back about this, you'll think different about them.
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Sheetal1256 said:
Holy crap....shit! Wtf...i would kill myself if it would happen to me...that is so bad...why dont wewe make ur parents understand u??...and if they dont want to understand wewe and tell them that they shud listen to you.................:)
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Lawli-gagger said:
still waiting for wewe to tell me HOW wewe have the WORST parents in the world....
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I have only intentented on saying what has happened to me on that day.YOU THINK MY PARENTS DO NOTHING TO ME? I have tehnically been kicked out of the house kwa my mother and slept one night in the garden...in the cold.my mum has pulled my hair and hit my head over a wall,my dad has been beating me countlessly,and my parents ...neither of them allow me have the Marafiki I would want to have! they want to talk to every friend I make! they dont let me watch sinema because they think it contains too much adultery and crap like this but I probably wouldnt have wanted to share this thing online ! but because everyone now thinks my parents are just " wonderful" people... how many times will I copy paste this?:))
nessienjake posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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No offense but, wewe come on fanpop to whine about your parents? How about calling cfs, cfsa, au whatever. No one here can do anything for you. I think its horrible-what they are doing to you, and instead of coming on here to talk to these specks on the internet, wewe need to talk to someone that will actually help you.
Lawli-gagger posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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call the police on them au something like that
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LinaHarrow said:
So let me get this straight:

-They don't let wewe wear make-up
-They don't let wewe date
-They don't let wewe talk on the telephone

Wow, sucks to be you. -_-
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all em my parents dont let me do - especially date.
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simlover4 said:
wewe should threaten to run away unless they be nice to you
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also when wewe get married don't invite them :p
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ChocolatyPuff said:
ಠ_ಠ
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howd u do em eyes??
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alt 3232 + _ + alt 3232
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hermes13 said:
Trust me wewe should run away. thats the best solution, ifyou have any other Marafiki that will run away with wewe get them to come.
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lisapham11 said:
I have worse parents. Not saying this because I'm trying to comfort wewe au like anything like that but it's true. My parent always burn up my inayopendelewa clothes if I don't listen to them. And whatever I do they yell at me. I can't do anything I want, I'm controlled like a puppy and I've been like this my whole life. I'm 16, If wewe wonder.
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nkqueeny said:
call the police, and fuck him up
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CokeTheUmbreon said:
They don't abuse you; they're just overprotective parents.
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