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PLEASE HELP!!! WHAT SHOULD I DO ABOUT MY BOYFRIEND?

i first met and fell in upendo with him in 2008, he wasn't in upendo with me, then broke my heart.
the inayofuata year, (2009), i wasn't in upendo with him. then HE fell in upendo with ME!!
so the inayofuata mwaka (2010) we started dating. then he broke my heart, AGAIN!!!
i alisema i'll never talk to him. but NOW he's come back, and he's apologizing. he keeps cutting himself because i won't talk to him...
wewe know what i say? i say,
"let him die".
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well... zaidi like EX-boyfriend...
11HiddenNinja posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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well,honey people do get tired of gettin there moyo broken (you) i understand i wouldn't want to talk to him either after all that back and forth crap,that is baby games right,i wouldn't take him back i would say when you're ready to be with me let me know! If not then just songesha on with our lives cause to me sound like he is playing head games with wewe and if i was wewe i would NOT take that crap maybe after the 2nd time i would've alisema screw wewe and get down the road with your life. I also think he is cuttin himself cause he want's wewe to feel bad and take him back again,but when is enough wewe know?!?! If wewe really care for him and want to be with him and wewe think it's upendo then go for it but if wewe don't feel the same then walk away and don't take him back for a LONG while! I hope i helped you:)
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xMadisonx said:
wewe should forgive him, and be friends.
Forgive and forget what happened.
There are many boys in the world that wewe will meet and fall in upendo with and have issues with and who will break your heart. But the best thing to do is just be Marafiki and forgive and forget.

Let me tell wewe a story:
I had a boyfriend once, a mwaka au two au three zamani xD And I still remember how I loved him lot, but he kept being a jerk and an ass, so I broke up with him. We kept getting back together, and I also had a friend who was jealous so she would also get in between us. If wewe add up all the amount of times we went out it would be a 1 au something. He broke my moyo so many times that when we last broke up, I could care less, and I got over it very quick but now we're really good friends

People have to learn that when a boy breaks up with you, nomatter how much wewe loved him, dont waste all your tears on him, dont cry your moyo out for him. There are better guys out there and it will take wewe a while to find the exactly right one. Dont waste your tears on someone whos not worth it.

-Madison :)
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that girl was really your friend?
siory posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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and yeah there are zaidi samaki in the sea
siory posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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Yeah she was my friend and still is, she is a big b*tch at times and I still remember ever since grade 3 we argued but now that we are older we dont argue as much and we are much better Marafiki then what we used to be, she was always a jealous person of me, but not as much anymore so everything is fine now :) And that boy I went out with, she was jealous that I was dating him, because she liked him at that time but he didnt like her, he liked me zaidi then anyone (But yet he was still an ass) But that chick was angery as hell when we went out and got back together and when ever we broke up, she would become happy, but we got back together so many times I Lost count, so I could care less and thats when I learnd that guys arent worth tears until wewe find the right one. But dont get me wrong, its not a harm to cry. I understand!
xMadisonx posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
StarGirl1721 said:
wewe could just forgive him and never go out with him he might probably break your moyo again and i wouldn't want that to happen lol
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gooby5412 said:
girl i would just plain leave him i think wewe should deserve a better man than him
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siory said:
He sucks,let him go
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miznicky said:
yeah lav let him die,been in da same situatin,met da guy (2008)went owt wit the guy inayofuata thing he fucks up ma heart,does a whole lot of shit bhnd my back and lies about it then i broke up with him,then he told me stupid lines bou hw he is been brkn heartd before..then yah the story took its turn,we got back together last year,things where ok until he messd up again but alng the wai he got a wake up col then this mwaka it happnd that he is the ONE IN upendo with me but i no longer care,so he is the one suffering,all i did with him was play reverse pshycology and it is workn,i upendo it :)..but for wewe love,do what will make wewe happy at the end of it all,whthr it is being wit him au not(your choice),what really matters now is your HAPPINESS!! :)
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iluvsmj said:
songesha on.

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boolander25 said:
I wouldn't say to let him die, but just try to reconcile and tell him why wewe won't talk to him. Giving him the cold shoulder won't solve anything. wewe have to be able to let him see the light and realize what he did and how he hurt wewe because he obviously hasn't realized it. The best thing wewe can do for the both of wewe is to fix both errors and then do your separate ways, but wewe have to tell him that.
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GaGaBoi said:
wewe should both just Kill Yourselfs TBH.



That is all. ~
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What TBH means?
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Tamar20 said:
Tell him this"I wanna be with you. I really like you. But at the same time I don't. Why? 'Cause I know you'll hurt me, and not even care. And I don't wanna risk getting hurt again"
don't worry he'll get over it.
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