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Should i talk to her??

ok i use to tarehe a guy but i dumped him then a mwezi later he starts dating my best friend,and they hugged and kissed in front of me,SO SHOULD I TALK TO HER??
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PaisleyPark said:
It's kinda against the "girl code" to tarehe your Marafiki ex anyway.


I know it's hard to see someone wewe have strong feelings for with someone else... But they are together now, and either wewe can accept it... au ask your friend to tone down the PDA around you.

She might get mad though...
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thespikedturtle said:
What's wrong with that? They're together, wewe aren't. It's not like he's doing anything wrong. But if it makes wewe feel awkward, then yeah, talk to her.
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Puffedwarrior said:
Give that girl a stern talking to. She's a back-stabber, alright.
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Goldilottes said:
yes. both of them. serarately. but that depends if wewe actually want to get back with him.why did wewe dump him in the first place? maybe wewe shouldn't have done that as wewe clearly still have feelings for him. wewe should work out whether wewe do, au whether it is just jealousy and feeling mad at your bff- which is totally understandable. i would just say, be really careful how wewe go abouyt approaching them and talking about this, as wewe mnight loose both of them.
I think he is probably on the rebound after you- i doubt he really loves your bff cos if he did he'd have loved her from the start. he's probably trying to make wewe jealous, so he may still like you.
wewe may be in a bad situation here as it might turn out that wewe have to choose between your bff and your guy. of course, it depends how they both react to what wewe say.

With your friend, wewe could always take the approach that wewe arent sure he really likes her and wewe think he is just trying to make wewe jealous, as this is likely the case. seeing as she's kissing him IN FRONT of you, she sounds like she's left wewe for him becasue she thinks he loves her.
so, after your talk with HIM wewe may find out he was just trying to make wewe jealous and want him back, so i think he may still like you. take this opportunity to tell him if wewe want him back. be apologetic- it was your fault and wewe probably broke his moyo so make him feel better and he'll be all over you.

as for her, if the talk doesnt go well, ditch the bitch, kahaba and go get your guy ;)
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animegrl52p said:
Just go up to her and tell her that it is bothering u. If she is a true friend, she will listen and not do those things in front of u.
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