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Dad and Mum always fight with each other and i don't really feel comfortable with this! i'm afraid of DIVORCE! i mean....UGH! i feel really uncomfortable!!! help!
 jeniffer2200 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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Insane4ever said:
My dad and mom fight 2,but they are alredy devorced....i actualy cant help wewe there....sorry
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StarGirl1721 said:
Ummm i don't know what wewe can do maybe when your mum and dad are both calm wewe can tell them both to stop fighting and get over it............
if they get mad at wewe tell em how wewe feel and that your really uncomfortable....hope it helps you, sorry if its no use
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adultswimperson said:
This isn't exactly a "question" that anyone can help wewe with, that's life for you, parents fight and they get a divorce, most others don't because they dont have problems but it happens to many others.
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dreamfields said:
Well as it has been mentioned there may not be alot wewe can do. But, first of all, do not blame yourself. I no sometimes when parents argue, kids can feel somehow it must be their fault. It is not.
Try to treat each of your parents with respect. If one of your parents does something good au nice, tell them wewe appreciate it. wewe might mention it to the other parent. Not that it's that one parent is better than the other, but just to mention that it was nice. Sometimes when adults are fighting, they see only the negative and not anything positive. Pray for them. If wewe have an aunt au uncle wewe trust confide in them. Whatever happens, remember it is not your fault. I hope for the best. God bless!
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Thank you!
jeniffer2200 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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wewe are welcome
dreamfields posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
candlefairy_13 said:
Let nature take it's course. Sometimes it's for the better.
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yea things happen for a reason even though wewe might not know it yet it will be clear soon :D
Duncan-lover1 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
yukikiyruu said:
i understand
my dad and mum also do the same,but they don,t fight that much and i am sure they don,t divorce b,coz they upendo me and my brother so much.they stop fighting for our sake always and also they stop their divorce for my sake when i am of 2 years
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thespikedturtle said:
Hey, don't worry about it, okay? My mom and dad have been divorced since I was 2, I don't even remember them being together. But it's not that bad really, you're still going to see both of your parents, just maybe not together.

And it's not like wewe can change anything. What will happen, will happen. And you're just going to have to make the very best of it. :)
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Duncan-lover1 said:
tell them how wewe feel and that wewe fear them splitting up tell them that wewe need them right now growing up without a parent is hard but having them mgawanyiko, baidisha and wewe being divided is harsh too be honest with them hopefully things will turn out for the better good luck
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samuraibond005 said:
My mom and dad have been devorced for a long time, I find that the only really bad part is how wewe have to listen to them complain about each other.
Dad: I don't mean to talk bad about your mom, but she is so lazy and bad with money.
Mom: wewe know, your dad is so uptight, he won't give me any slack with money, and I am trying as hard as I can.

UGHHHH!
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posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
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yea sound about right :S
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kfchater94 said:
It's okay to be scared. Most people when their parents get divorced are scared. I remember b4 my parents got divorced it was horrible. They fought all the time and sometimes they would throw things at each other it scared me, I was 5. So I totally understand. But if wewe need someone to talk to au even to complain to I'll be here listening. All I can tell wewe is that when the fighting starts put some muziki on au go outside. And this might not work but try telling whoever you're closet to your fears. Maybe they'll listen. And if they end up getting divorced please don't blame yourself. Because the guilt will eat wewe alive, trust me. I hope I was a help, and remember if wewe need anything, ANYTHING at all write me.
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Jeffersonian said:
There's not really a lot wewe can do. Just fighting doesn't necessarily mean a divorce is on the way. My parents fight a lot, but it's just because my dad naturally has a bad temper. They've been together over twenty years.
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yeah but of the time that's how it starts. A lot of people's parents fight but there's a difference between petty fighting and like fighting, fighting.
kfchater94 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
johnhetfield666 said:
hun ik exactly how u feel i protect my mom and me and my dad got in fist fights over it
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