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Does this sounds like I'm the jerk au my friend and what should I do about it?

Ok this happened a long time ago, but I just need to talk about it. Ok I was real good Marafiki with someone on here (or I thought I was) well I have this problem if someone makes fun of Dawn from Pokemon I get really mad and sometimes I yell at them (I don't do it much anymore) Will I saw someone say they hate Dawn because she's to nice and kind. I got really ticked off and yelled "Will at least she's not a jerk like Misty!! It's actually a good thing to be nice, not a jerk!!" Then I saw I was yelling at her, I was like "Oh.....that's not good" She got mad and yelled "Do wewe have to stand up for Dawn everytime someone says one thing about her! Just leave me alone!!" I felt horrible, I made a good friend hate me. She doesn't talk to me anymore and I miss her. One of my Marafiki alisema she was being a bad friend, not me and that she wasn't a true friend if she stopped talking to me after one fight. Do wewe think she's right? She did friend me back after I alisema I like Misty again, but once I started hating Misty....agian. She deleted me....again. Do wewe think I'm the one being the jerk au do wewe think my friens is? How do I get her to forgive me? I don't know what to do, I've alisema I was sorry a million times, but she won't talk to me.
 pumpkinqueen posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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NeroVsLeon said:
Ok let get this straight, you're fighting over a cartoons characters?! Anyway it's not wewe au her is being a jerk, but I really think wewe should talk to her like in an intelligent way if wewe know what I mean.
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posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
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u're right
bucherstrongest posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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I know it's very stupid think to fight about, but this was like 4 months zamani and I don't get mad about stuff like that anymore. I have Marafiki on here who like different characters then me and we talk all the time. But she just won't even talk to me anymore, I don't know what to do. I've alisema I was sorry, but she just ignores me.
pumpkinqueen posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
bucherstrongest said:
what?! she hates u only because u like different characters? that's not friendly, none of u are jerks, well for example, i don't like justin bieber but my friend likes him, but we still r friends, hating a person only because he/she hates ur fav character, that's crazy, dude! go and tell ur friend her mistake and she'll understand something, problem's over
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posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
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I've tried talking to her kwa messages, but she won't even say one word to me.
pumpkinqueen posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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k then just wait, don't say to her any word and then she'll apologise kwa herself
bucherstrongest posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
tdigirl said:
put that on zee advice spot.......
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posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
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its a bila mpangilio spot. meaning anything can go on.
Goldilottes posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
animegrl52p said:
Niether of wewe are jerks! wewe both have different opinions on characters. Try telling your friend what wewe think about this fight and try apologizing again. wewe shouldnt constantly try to apologize. Give her time to think about it. If she is a real friend, she'll forgive you.
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posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
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I don't constandtly apologize, sometimes I jst try and say hi to her. But she just asks like I didn't say anything.
pumpkinqueen posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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*constantly, *just, *acts. Sorry misspelled some words.
pumpkinqueen posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
kitmolly123 said:
No one is a jerk,but she really needs to learn that people have their own opinions.
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LifesGoodx3 said:
I think wewe both need to talk out your problems so wewe can see if being Marafiki is possible anymore.
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StarWarsFan7 said:
Well, this did happen a long time ago. wewe and your friend should get over it. Forget about it and make up.
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posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
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I have forgot about it and I want to make up, she just won't listen.
pumpkinqueen posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
EmzLovesCheryl said:
Neither of wewe are being jerks, you've both got caught up in a silly argument. Your friendship really should not be based on - cartoon characters?

She's having a go at your for standing up for this Dawn, but she's ignoring wewe because wewe don't like Misty.

Tbh, in my opinion, if she can't be mature enough to get over your opinion on some cartoon characters, then she's not worth trying to win back. You've apologized all wewe can, it's up to her to decide. wewe shouldn't be the one chasing after her.

It doesn't matter what your interests are. I have Marafiki on here who have interests of all sorts. muziki tastes from One Direction to Black Veil Brides, and interests from anime to soaps.

wewe don't have to agree on your friends' opinion. I have a friend on here who doesn't like Cheryl Cole, whereas I'm her biggest fan. It shouldn't come between you. It's wewe that matters, not which characters/music/books/interests etc wewe like. :)


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posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
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Thanks for the advise. :)
pumpkinqueen posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
TeamGalacticFan said:
Well I'd say your the victim here I mean just because wewe don't like one character dosen't necesarily mean that she should even consider thinking about deleting wewe because well all I could say is that its not what Marafiki do!

Okay I am saying that she is the one being a jerk if I'm honest!

wewe have all the right in the world to defend a character wewe like.

And if she was a true friend she would forgive wewe I'm sorry but I don't know if her senses will come back unless she gets them knocked back into her!

So this is what I mean overall:
Your old friend:The jerk
You:The victim

Well thats what I think anyway!
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posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
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But really none of wewe are jerks I'm sure of it well at least i know your not anyway!See I have a hard time explaining things in my way which is when I have so much on my mind so some of that may just be jibberish.
TeamGalacticFan posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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But she is proving to be immature kwa not getting over something so small!I mean at school I have a friend who is like N's biggest shabiki whilst I really hate N but we're still really good Marafiki it hasn't made us fall apart what so ever!And well I like Tabitha whilst she can't stand him and none of the two incidencces have ever involved a fall out between us!
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