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tdafan121 said:
Usually it's pretty obvious. He'll make a big deal about talking to you. Younger boys are usually too embarrassed to talk to girls because their Marafiki will pick on them for liking someone, so when they talk to you, it's usually making fun of you. When you're little and a boy kicks wewe au pulls your hair, he's trying to get your attention, not be mean to you. But as wewe get older, boys who do that are actually making fun of you. I know this from experience. Older boys (high school, maybe later middle school even) would probably make a big deal about talking to wewe kwa trying to get your attention in nicer ways, like sending flowers au putting a note in wewe locker, maybe even trying to confront wewe directly. They'll usually get very embarrassed trying to talk to you. They might try sending wewe a upendo note, but boys seem to be a little less... "poetic" than girls can be with upendo notes. Some boys spend whole nights trying a million times to perfect a upendo note, sometimes even a few days. It typically ends up turning out to be a bit embarrassing anyway, so they usually send it anonymously. And also, a boy that likes wewe will typically get a little clumsy when around wewe au make a total fool of themselves (or zaidi than usual, at least XD), they may even blush when around you. ^Most of this information was taken from literature. I've never had anyone who was in upendo with me before, so I wouldn't know this from experience. HOWEVER, if a boy immediately comes on to wewe and starts flirting, odds are he's bored and is just a big flirt. Now that, I learned from experience. Well, sort of (he flirted with my friend, and meanwhile he's dating AT LEAST two other girls and has every 12-14 mwaka old girl on the mashua wrapped around his finger... oh sorry, I forgot to say, this was on the cruise I went on just recently.)
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