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I am in DESPERATE NEED of advice! please HELP!

hi guys! so... i really need advice! its just that i like this guy, so i got my friend to tell him that someone really likes him! and i also got my friend to ask him who he has a crush on. Now i am VERY worried! what if it's not me?? what if he likes my friend?? what if he gets disgusted kwa the thought that I would like him??
WHAT SHOULD I DO??? I AM GOING MAD!
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fluffyluvr21 said:
It's okay because there are many guys out there that probably like wewe , if the guy doesn't like wewe then he is not the right one . My mom told me that there's someone out there waiting for wewe to find them .... au maybe there trying to find wewe ! So wewe never know , upendo is intense and and if wewe choose the wrong dude your moyo will be shattered . Make sure wewe know he is the right one , I reminisce sometimes on how I liked this guy , he like d me too in a friendly way though , we talked and had fun and stuff . That was until I found out he's been seeing someone else , I was very sad . But , I knew he wasn't right for me , and I sort of went in war with the girl ( who was my friend ever since pre-school ) and thought I could be with the guy again but I wasn't I made it worse . I'm not telling wewe to fight your best - friend , but that's because friendship goes along with upendo and without friendship we could not have upendo . So here's my advice and if wewe want zaidi advice wewe could send a message and I'll try to help as much as I can !
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thank wewe SOOOOOO much!
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Aqua_Rose said:
'Worry does not empty tomorrow of its sorrows, it empties today of its strength'

OK, so, you've already got your friend to ask him who he likes, right? Then don't worry- what's done is done, all wewe can do is wait to hear what he said.
I have a few questions...
-Are wewe and him already good friends?
-Has he ever treated wewe different to everyone else?
-Does he seem like the sort of person who would hate wewe just because wewe want to be zaidi than friends?

If you're REALLY stressed, look up ways to know if a guy likes you. I'm no expert, but seriously, try not to think about it too much. Distract yourself- I know its hard.
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we r not frnds. he mostly either talks to me au to one of my frnds. and he does not seem to b that sort of a guy who would hate me cuz i want 2 b zaidi than just frnds. it's just that he can b VERY mean 2 me sometimes, but hey, upendo has no boundaries eh?
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OK... From that, I would say that it is unlikely that he does like wewe in that way, but really, it still depends on a lot of stuff. For example, whether he means it when he i mean to you. However, as your friend is a girl, its unlikely that he would tell her who he likes because he probably knows that gossip spread fast in girl world. But yeah, you're right, its possible that he does like you, but don't get too hopeful- I don't mean to sound horrible, but its zaidi likely to be that he doesn't. :)
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oh ok LOL its just when wewe sed what if he likes ur friend... oops... rofl
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Jeffersonian said:
I hate to be rude but wewe can't really do anything if he likes someone else it's just tough luck. wewe can't always get what wewe want.
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tru tru, so tru. thnx 4 telling me!
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smartone123 said:
boys shouldn't rule what wewe think,just songesha on never lose your mind over anyone.
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JoannaVonDoom said:
You're an idiot. Don't waste your time on boys.
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don't u have a bf? au did u just face a breakup? i can help if need be. just sayin'
justingurl99 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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I don't have a boyfriend and definitely don't need one.
JoannaVonDoom posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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ok. srry if i offended u au smthng
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adultswimperson said:
This swali would be better off asked on the Advice spot au the upendo club.
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ooohhhkkkk then!
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