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I recently started college and it's been really stressful and I've just been feeling really down. I look around and see gorgeous girls aswell and i just feel really insecure...any advice? sorry, I don't mean to whine :(
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JaseKS said:
Trust me, after a while, everything gets easier. Think back to highschool, it was hell in the beginning, right? Then after a few weeks, it's fine.


And as for being insecure, I'll bet wewe have nothing to worry about. Those girls are just as insecure as wewe are. If wewe look at anyone long enough you'll start to notice their flaws. And who do wewe see zaidi than yourself? Every time wewe look in the mirror, au at a reflection in the water, wewe see yourself. Im sure they don't think themselves as perfect, unless theyre losers. wewe just have to adjust. Humans are very adaptive, college will be a routine in no-time.
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Thanks, this helped ❤
Iheartdrwho posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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no problem :)
JaseKS posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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yes I agree
crrazycake posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
-Wednesday- said:
Aw. Poor you.
I wish I could help. And so I shall bestow some shnazzy advice to wewe that wont help at all.
Eat pie.
Rub a genie's lamp.
Act obnoxious.
Act like a idiot.
Eat zaidi pie.
Stop sleeping.
Sleep more.
Find a object au something to obsess over.
Act like wewe are "above" everyone else.
Eat zaidi but dont gain weight.
Its worked for me pretty well but Im not in college tho.
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HeitsiTsegin said:
Let me give wewe some advice about college, buy a pie tin, and cook all your chakula in that.
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zikkifan4ever said:
wewe probably don't want advice from a 13 mwaka old girl but....
Don't let anyone get wewe down. They're all ordinary. Ordinary's boring(: let your creative side show! Being pretty isn't life. I'm not that pretty but people like me for my personallity! No, I'm not Marafiki with all the maarufu pretty girls but my Marafiki like me for who I am! Find Marafiki like that!(:
Hope I helped!(:
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Yeah I do have amazing Marafiki and I know looks aren't everything but I'm just feeling zaidi conscious about myself now and thanks :)
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Jeffersonian said:
We all get really insecure about everything especially when we're surrounded kwa people that seem perfect...from looking at your profile, the best advice I can think of is your own motto...just stop being sad and be awesome instead.
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Tamar20 said:
College Anxiety. Huh? Let me guess, wewe and your roommate do not get along at all? Or, you're constantly doing homework. Anyway, I know how wewe feel, I'm a college student, too, but I'm not a freshman. So, wewe just need confidence, wewe can't be afraid of what people are going to say about wewe because REGARDLESS of how wewe look people are going to judge and talk about you. wewe could be the prettiest girl alive and people will still talk negative about, so wewe just gotta say FUCK it and live your life the way wewe want! And try to concentrate on your strengths zaidi until wewe can work through it. Hey! You're "good enough" to qualify for being a student at a prestigious University... that's pretty good kwa so many standards! Anyway, build zaidi of your life at college, just try not to belabor the subject when wewe Converse with others. Get involved, live in the now, and build your new life... again, concentrate on the positive aspects of your reality and the negatives will diminish. Do your studies, it won't always be easy, but as wewe tune in and grow, wewe will have the time of your life!
Anyway, Have wewe considered binge drinking? Give it a shot...(no pun intended)*chuckles* I'm joking.
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That was inspiring, how do wewe do that?
crrazycake posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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Pffft, really? Well, from experience.
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crrazycake said:
Don't be sad, just be happy :D
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kaboomgirl said:
Well, do what I do.

When wewe see all of those gorgeous girls walking around, just curse at them in your head until wewe feel better. Then forget wewe ever saw them. Everyone is beautiful, so don't doubt yourself. Look in a mirror, and say this to yourself over and over again:

I am beautiful. To hell with the other girls. I am beaufitul.

And if something embarressing happens, au wewe just had a bad day, listen to some music, au drown yourself in Doctor Who episodes, like I do. Don't be afraid to start imba along to the Double upinde wa mvua song and dancing your punda off, too.

I hope that helped. :)
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tdiCxTlova18 said:
get your mind off of those things
think about:
1.ur holidays
2.that girl/boy that stands out to u
3.the party u plan to throw
4.the pie u can eat :3
5. how u plan to ask out #2
it will totes make things easier =)
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