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I really need advice

Today everyone was pressuring this boy to ask this girl to the dance. Then the teacher practically called them out. So now me, that boy, and another boy are on our school website chatting. The boy that got pressured is saying how he might commit suicide. Me and the other boy are trying to help but wen dont know what to do. WHAT SHOULD WE DO?!?!?!
 btrluver1 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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trainofdoom82 said:
Bro. Committing suicide over going to a dance with a girl?

Donde estan sus huevos broski?

Just tell him to turn down the girl and grow a pair while he's at it.



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posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
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XD
coriann posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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I hate that saying: grow a pair. It just simply implies that a woman can't be brave and shouldn't bother to try... :-/
ivoryphills posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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^ I never thought of it that way... hmm...
JaseKS posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
NCISGIBBS said:
First I think wewe should make sure he's begin legitimate. I knew this guy who managed to get the whole school to hate him at the Homecoming Dance (because he shoved his tarehe - my best friend - over)... Anyway, continuing. He ran off campus crying saying he was gonna commit suicide. I ran after him and talked to him. He alisema later that he had only alisema that to get attention.

This guy might not be like my situation but anyway: just make sure he's being legit first.

Then I guess wewe should just talk him through it. Tell him it'll get better. I told the guy previously mentioned that "this was the lowest you've ever felt which means it can only get better from here!" That cheered him up :)

Anyway, just encourage him and let him know wewe care for him and are there for him and that it isn't as bad as he thinks.
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^^sorry for this lengthy mess of mine :/
NCISGIBBS posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
simpleplan said:
Try telling him that it not worth killing ones self over. Also let him know that suicide is the cowards way out of things.
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AuthorForPooh said:
OMG THATS SO SAD. just get adult help. i dont know how to deal with this.....
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smartone123 said:
adult help is best but remind him of happy times that hes had,that its a cowards way out
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Clutch13 said:
Try to calm him down and try not to let him out of sight. Call 9-1-1 if wewe have to. When wewe get the chance. ripoti that teacher to the principal. She should be fired au suspended for what she did. If nothing gets done that way. Go straight to the school board. Tell the kid it's gonna get better. That he'll be alright. Talk to this girl people pressured him to ask. Tell her what's happening too. Just don't let him out of your sight so to speak. Suicide aint no joke, I Lost an uncle that way. Tell this kid to think of his loved ones and how much pain his suicide would cause to his family and friends... And onyesha him this vid... Tell him to listen to Rocky's words about life. Might sound stupid but hey... It motivates me quite a bit so... IDK. Maybe it'll make him think twice about it. I hope this helps.
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edwardrobertcul said:
tell him that it's not worth killing himself 4 sth like this!!!!!!! life is precious!!!!!! and if he commits suicide, is he gonna change anything????? tell him not to behave so reckless and irresponsibly....... a solution will be found, but it isn't the suicide!!!!! u have 2 save him!!!!!
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adultswimperson said:
Tell the guy to suck it up and grow some balls, people are going to nag someone at times, life isn't all about being nice.
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Yes but some people are zaidi sensible than others...
darkwave posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
darkwave said:
Get adult help,this is really sad :´(
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coriann said:
first of all, i dont fully understand but from what i gathered.....he wants to kill himself because of a girl. is it because she alisema no? au is it because hes nervous and plus thats a dumb reason he must be depressed about something else and this just triggered it
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ivoryphills said:
First, send him this message for me: "Damn, boy, seriously?! Kill yourself because others want wewe to ask a girl to the dance, a task wewe could have easily alisema 'no' to?!" Second, tell him that suicide never solves anything; it justs leaves the people who upendo him miserable and it dumps whatever problems he has onto them.
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