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How do I come out to my Mom?

I'm a 14 mwaka old female bisexual, and I've already come out to a few of my friends, and they're all really chill with it (I upendo my Marafiki <3 ) but there's the issue of my Mom. She's not a homophobe, per-say, like she accepts them, but she particularly dislikes the choice, and she HATES the idea of bisexuals, because apparently they're just being "sexually selfish". I understand where she's coming from, but this is my personal choice to be bisexual, because I can just as happily live my life with a woman as I could with a man. So... how do I tell my mom that her little innocent barbie doll is something she's scared of?
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I so wanted to put "jump out your cliset and shout I am bi" but decided that was a tad harsh.
I_DONT-KNOW posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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Huzzah for bisexuality!
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smartone123 said:
i think wewe have to tell her its what wewe want and wewe REALLY don't need her approval when its what wewe want :3
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Thank wewe :)
dylin1 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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welcome
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zoki said:
I think u should tell her its what u want and no matter what she says its not going to change who u are. u'll still be u and thats all that matters:) so go tell ur mom that u are bi and theres nothin she can do to u to change u, its what u want not what she wants,so dont be scared to tell her:)Its ur LIFE not hers
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Thank wewe so very much :)
dylin1 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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urwelcome:)
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I_DONT-KNOW said:
Just tell her. She is your mom after all she will try her best to support wewe and understand you. It's the meaning of 'mom'after all.

Well that and eternal slave. XD
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haha
dylin1 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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XD. Good luck.
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Vocaloidcode01 said:
Just say it. Bis and gays are people, too.
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trehot said:
"mom im bi, deal with it."
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HAHA amen! :P
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16falloutboy said:
Well there's nothing wrong with being bisexual au being gay au lesbian....not all bisexual people are bad...some are and some good wewe should tell your mom the truth, tell her there's nothing wrong with being bisexual
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i know theres nothing wrong with it, but its her personal belief that it's wrong :P
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jester616 said:
That's good your Mom isn't a homophobe. That makes things a little easier. I wouldn't phrase your orientation as a choice; it's part of who wewe are. It's just that once wewe say it's a "choice" the usual retort is to "choose" to be straight. Good luck.
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Thank wewe :)
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Jeffersonian said:
If this is really what wewe want, tell your mom that this is your choice and it would really help if she accepts...parents usually accept their children for who they are and upendo them no matter what.
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YAY
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RobinFan360 said:
"Mom,I'm bi. and I don't give a fuck"
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Will do :P
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blazeandarose said:
I am actually not sure. I wish i could think of something to help you, But at the moment, I cannot think of anything.
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s'all good
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xXSweeneyXx said:
"but this is my personal choice to be bisexual"

Personal choice?!

Sexuality's not supposed to work like that.

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[i]"but this is my personal choice to be bisexual"[/i] Personal choice?! Sexuality's not supposed to work like that.
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everyone has different definitions of sexuality. For me it's a choice, for other's it's a birthright. Deal with it.
dylin1 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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That is the most stupid thing I've ever heard.
xXSweeneyXx posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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I'm sorry wewe feel that way.
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adultswimperson said:
wewe have to tell her it's what wewe want, wewe don't need anybody's approval of wewe being bisexual, especially if it's parents, it's your life and wewe can be the only one to make your own choices.
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Okily dokily :)
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