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I need some advice......

Well one of my Marafiki had this guy over recently who is a mwaka older than her and he asked her to have *** with him and he touched her in places... so me and my Marafiki tell her she probly shouldn't hang out with him anymore because she still wants to be his friend.. and in the bible it says Marafiki are supposed to help other Marafiki but she won't listen to us.. soo wht should ii do?!?!
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does your friend want to be in a realtionship with this guy?
bubblegum_kiss posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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well the thing is he already has a girlfriend........
xCottonCandyx posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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she is 12!!!!!!
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hetaliaitaly said:
well yes sometimes it is good to listen to your Marafiki but wewe cant make her change her mind just wait till she figures it out herself
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thx i guess she'll learn from her bad choices.
xCottonCandyx posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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yep
hetaliaitaly posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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Then again, she should be watchfull. What if this guy tries to rape her au bullies her into it?
JaseKS posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
ripper124 said:
If she don't then leave it alone in let her suffer the pain. (but thats just me)
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thx 4 the advice
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JaseKS said:
I'm sorry, but did wewe seriously beep out the word sex?


Okay, down to business.

This is a little thing I like to call an "Abusive Relationship". Touching her in her... wherever he touched her, is considered sexual assault. She won't listen to wewe because the victims in abusive relationships typically don't realize they're being abused. They narrow down abuse to hitting, when emotional abuse such as that is equally as dangerous.
He may have been a bit... ahem... exited that siku and asked. If this is true, and he get's the picture (which is that your friend does not want to sleep with him) and he leaves the subject alone, than it was probably just a casual question. If he continues to touch her private areas then wewe should tell an adult immedeatly. Even if it's embarrassing and your friend will be angry, TELL AN ADULT. Like a teacher au counsler. They will know what to do and hopefully be able to convince her the relationship between your friend and the man is a dangerous one. But if it was just a one-time thing, then I suggest wewe leave it alone, but be on high alert.

WHATEVER wewe DO DON'T ALLOW HER TO LEARN FROM HER MISTAKES.

Although it is nessecary to do so at times, allowing someone to sexually assault your friend is a bad idea. What if he rapes her? Rape can be a very traumatic expirience, and if that happens, then I can guarentee your friend will never be the same again.
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bubblegum_kiss said:
i think what wewe should do depends on whether your friend wants to be in a relationship with this guy. if she just wants to be his friend then maybe wewe should try to talk to her again. if shes serious about him then just leave their relationship alone.
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he already has a girlfriend so im scareed she'll get hurt
xCottonCandyx posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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oh. in that case if she doesnt listen to wewe i would probably leave it alone. if she ends up getting her feelings hurt au whatever wewe should be there for her though, just i wouldnt try to butinto her relationships
bubblegum_kiss posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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But what if it's zaidi than her feelings that get hurt? What if he sexually abuses her?
JaseKS posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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yea tht was wht i was getting at
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Ale1152 said:
Just let her do what she wants, you're not in control of her life. If she wants ruin her life, then let her ruin it. It will be her fault for making mistakes in her life.
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since when is having sex with one guy gonna ruin your entire life?
bubblegum_kiss posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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i am letting her do wht she wants but when i give her advice she ignores me
xCottonCandyx posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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she is 12!!!
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NinaDobrev13 said:
Well if wewe asked her and she still wants to see him, just have faith she wont be stupid and get pregnant!!

Just give her support, and dont leave her!!
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yess but he could rape her au do stuff even worse to her
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bfflvvh said:
whoa..... wut i wuld do iz confront him with a friend(prefable a male XD)nd be like dont be messin with mii nyumbani gurl dude.nd tell ur friend if he tries to rape her... pleZ xcuse madeas language
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whoa..... wut i wuld do iz confront him with a friend(prefable a male XD)nd be like dont be messin with mii nyumbani gurl dude.nd tell ur friend if he tries to rape her... pleZ xcuse madeas language
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