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Why is it a big deal to ask if someone is a virgin?

Why do wewe yell at and insult people who ask if you're a virgin here?
Why is it so personal and why does it have to be a secret?
Are people supposed to be ashamed of being a virgin, au not being a virgin?

I think wewe guys insulting anyone who asks is just inaonyesha that wewe think people should be ashamed au being au not being a virgin. Is that what you're trying to do?

If you're going to start out kwa saying "This isn't the seX spot!!!! blah blah blah you're stupid and inappropriate" then I'm not going to read your answer.
bila mpangilio is random. Virginity is random.
Discussing how to have sex in detail is inappropriate. Saying you've never had sex is not.
 youknowit101 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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cassie-1-2-3 said:
I don't know, it's not a big deal.

If wewe feel like it's too personal, just don't share. There's no reason for wewe to prevent other people from sharing.
Same applies to ALL questions.
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posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
laura071197 said:
Its so private because noone has 2 know what I do au don't. It isn't about beibg ashamed of something. And sometimes, its just the way its asked and who is asking.
I think the only person that should know that, is the person that's gonna do something about it.
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posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
BlindBandit92 said:
The way I see it. People are just embarrassed to admit they are a virgin. And in response to that they sometimes lash out at other people. They can clearly ignore the swali but some don't and want to put their "two cents" in to say the least. I don't think they are implying it's bad to be a virgin. There's quite a few people who don't mind being virgins.

I do disagree with insulting people who ask such a swali about virginity if they don't want to answer then they shouldn't.

But wewe are correct if someone ask are wewe a virgin they get insulted alot. I think it's somewhat equatable to the swali to some females "how old are you". I've never understood that. Quite a few girls get upset if wewe even ask that and they start saying wewe shouldn't ask that of a lady. I really think that's stupid. There's nothing wrong with that swali either yet people get offensive.

In short I believe the people who insulted the person asking that swali quite possibly might be insecure about themselves in that certain subject and they lash out. That could be the reason why they do that.
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posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
botchfromhell said:
Its none of your buisness?
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posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
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your right
coriann posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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Exactly!
sammers77 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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Well yeah well its kind of impolite to ask but i agree its even ruder to insult the asker
botchfromhell posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
8theGreat said:
Several people find it to be a personal matter that shouldn't be asked, while others don't. All of it is simply a matter of opinion.
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posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
coriann said:
i just don't feel comfortable with the question.
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posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
dracofan001 said:
omg nobody alisema it wasn't random! its just personal! i mean wewe don't go around telling bila mpangilio strangers these things! some people might be ashamed on here of themselves for something related to that and they feel bad about themselves when there asked so deal with it! wewe wouldn't go up to some stranger and ask this! no that is wrong! SO FUCK OFF BRO!
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posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
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exactly
coriann posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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If wewe feel that way, keep it to yourself. Don't lash out at the person asking, and don't lash out at the people who don't feel ashamed of answering.
cassie-1-2-3 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
dreamcatcher321 said:
well...it is your personal life. and strangers wanting to know about your personal life....thats called a stalker.
its my personal life. and i don't have to share it if i don't want too.
deal with it.
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posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
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lol *a stalker*
coriann posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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:P
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Indeed.
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Lovehinagurl44 said:
Some people don't like to tell their personal business. I don't like that swali either. I don't care if people ask on here though.
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posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
InvaderStickly said:
I know I'm only 12 and I'm young, but if I were in school, I would be PROUD to be a virgin.
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posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
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so it doesen't matter if your proud, the swali still sucks :P
coriann posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
adultswimperson said:
Because others don't need to know about people's sex life.

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posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
cre8tive2114 said:
cuz why would we share that infomation to some bila mpangilio person... au anyone if we dont want too
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