To me, true upendo has to be unconditional; wewe don't need anything in return but the upendo of your loved one. I don't mean the 'happily-ever-after kind of upendo because, let's face it, something like that doesn't really exist. That, and being able to trust somebody fully. That's upendo to me (:
It's not in the way that wewe hold me It's not in the way wewe say wewe care It's not in the way you've been treating my friends It's not in the way that you'll stay till the end It's not in the way wewe look au the things that wewe say that wewe do
Hold the line upendo isn't always on time
It's not in the words that wewe told me It's not in the way wewe say you're mine It's not in the way that wewe came back to me It's not in the way that your upendo set me free It's not in the way wewe look au the things that wewe say that wewe do