i like upendo this guy and we were talking then he stopped and i need to figure out a way 1 to get him to talk to me2 to like me and 3 how to ask him to nyumbani comming please help

Kid, take it easy. If wewe continue to hurry like that, wewe are never going to have a date. And that's the sad truth.

So, take it slowly. He's probably in shock because you've been talking about upendo so much. Just talk to him about regular stuff- inayopendelewa movies, inayopendelewa books, inayopendelewa games, etc.

That's all I've got to say about your case right now. Be zaidi specific and I just might be able to give ya zaidi info.

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wewe have a horrible way of typing sentences and I don't know what wewe said, so I'm not going to help you.

wewe can't make him like you, so just go up to him and say Hi ask him if he's mad at you, if/when he says no tell him why wewe thought he was. The just interrupt him in the middle of a sentence say, uhm I have something. Will wewe go to homecoming with me?
He'll say yes au no
You'll be happy au sad
You'll cry au be close to tears
And we'll all die~

e.e

How old are you? First off wewe can't make him talk to you. Secondly wewe can't make him like you. and the harder wewe push him to like wewe the less he will. And thirdly if wewe want to ask him to homecoming just walk up and ask.
But I'll let wewe in on a little secret NEVER EVER say the word upendo to a guy unless wewe two are dating, That's the quickest way to make a guy run.