Can wewe get bored of someone wewe love?

If wewe upendo someone deep enough wewe can never get tired of him/her
You'll be interested in everything they say and do and laugh at their jokes just for the fact that they tried to amuse wewe and make wewe happy
it is a numbing joy that never leaves as long as you're with that person, even through hardship and sorrow
It is a real chemical reaction in your brain stronger than any drug that compels wewe to take care of that person and to selflessly help them no matter the cost to yourself
it has a lasting psychological effect that is hard to forget, if wewe ever succeed in removing what wewe will believe to be the happiest time of your life, from your mind.

upendo is a combination of effects, chemical, mental, "spiritual", behavioral. They will override all other human tendencies just to feel loved and to feel wewe belong

wewe never watched Jeremy kil have you?

In my case, no. No I can't.

I can never, ever, not in a million and three years, get tired of my beloved Choi Minho ♥

I don't just 'love' him. I practically worship this bitch.

Nope.Well, If wewe don´t truly upendo him, you´ll get bored. But if you´re in love, wewe won´t because you´ll be enjoying and spending time for someone wewe appreciate and love.

maybe wewe can but wewe will feel like you're burning from inside ..and that kills ...
so actually wewe can never forget au get bored except if that's not a real love.

Not if it is pure.

If wewe truly upendo someone wewe could never grow bore of them.

so no.

totally, i think wewe can totally get bored, i mean, why do wewe think divorce rates are sky rocketing all over the world? do wewe think that those people just weren't really in love? well i think they were, au at least a good bit of them!

i've never been in a romance before, but it's not always romance, sometimes wewe can tell that upendo gets boring when wewe buy a pet and get tired of it, au when your bored of your sister, au when wewe realize the same moto isn't there anymore with a friend one siku but then that it just pops up again another day

im not saying upendo isn't real, im just saying it needs maintenance that's all :)
the moto isn't going to be there all the time, sure wewe have downs, but if you're willing to work through those downs, you'll get to that point where your upendo keeps getting stronger and stronger and stronger, and the stronger it is, the harder it is to break ^ ^

although some people are lucky and they get it all in the first go, with no arguing, no pain, no problems, ha ha, that's what im going for, but for everyone else, i believe upendo takes work, so, i guess it's not for people who are just impatient and throw away used toys when they get over it

god i really hope i am making sense

It's not called upendo for no reason.

I know that my crush is very interesting.

I'm not sure about wewe but I could NEVER get bored with the person I upendo because they are unpredictable and surprise me every siku :)

happens to me

we'll so.stones the person wewe upendo is just naturally BORING !! when that happens it's ok to get bored of them. but usually if wewe truly upendo them wewe won't get bored of them . :)

I think getting bored of someone and really loving them are two separate things! Sometimes -maybe it depends on the person and if they get bored easy au if wewe are spending too much time around one another au if things are not kept fresh.

I do NOT think that means wewe do not upendo them... not at all. Relationship dynamics change all the time. I don't know how many people here have had LONG-term relationships "here" au even a relationship! to be able to answer... I think asking these kinds of things sometimes are funny on fp au on klabu like these because so many people speak without any real knowledge au no experience so it IS random. lol.

I am gonna be honest & say IDK... and say I haven't, but at the same time, I am, unfortunately, the type who gets bored easily and needs creative stimulation.