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coriann said:
i don't know if to call it self confidence au apathy, but lately i've found myself a lot less shy than in awali situations, maybe it was because i took a break from school for a while idk.... i think the only way sometimes to get rid of your fears is to face them sorry :( i think cutiepie has some good points, wewe should learn to accept yourself for wewe wewe are, stop short changing yourself, lol, it's a process and something that doesn't happen over night, im sorry but i don't know if wewe will be able to get rid of your shyness fast enough to get with this boy (you might) if wewe just hold your breath and have a go at it XD, that works for a lot of people the first thing wewe need to do is self acceptance acknowledge you're shy, and that's okay, lots of people are shy, maybe wewe can even use that so your advantage in some weird way :P and then wewe go on accepting yourself and your flaws and maybe even pointing out some good stuff about yourself, until wewe start to realize what a special and awesome person wewe are then step two, which wewe can do while wewe are doing step one is GO OUT! face your fears :) wewe don't have to do anything drastic that wewe think wewe r not ready for, but just go out more, and then be around people more, open up to your friends, when wewe open up to people wewe start to realize the deep dark things that wewe thought were so horrible about wewe aren't really that bad then, when wewe are confident about who wewe are as a person wewe would be zaidi confident that people will like that person :) thus making wewe zaidi confident about yourself so that wewe can make that inayofuata move, even if your nerves still kill wewe sometimes, lol hey, at least this is my theory, but i'm a quack, my plans never work, so be careful if wewe wanna listen to me :P
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