ok um sometimes people use wewe as a shoulder to lean on until they make zaidi Marafiki so wewe have to be careful about who wewe choose.if they talk to wewe all the time and start talking less than maybe they want wewe as a back up friend:( (not good)
wewe know if someones your friend when they ask wewe haow wewe are doing and they really want to know when wewe can talk to them about anything and they will listen and not judge you. They are your true Marafiki when they will do anything to make sure wewe are okay. they are the ones that are always there for wewe not just during your high times but those times when wewe get knocked to your knees and their there to help wewe right back up again thats how wewe can tell if someone is truly your friend
Honestly I don't believe in true friends. wewe can't always trust them au they won't always be there when wewe need them. I am not saying there are no Marafiki because i have really good friends. But let me give u an example when ur friend has a boyfriend they will leave to be with them and they forget about u. au they will also be jealous of what u have and thet is not a good friend. There are alot of small little things that ur Marafiki will make that doesn't make them a true friend. I can think of alot but i am too lazy to write all of them. Also there always getting mad and leaving u. There are good Marafiki but no true Marafiki that will always be there for u.
wewe know someone is truely your friend when wewe screw up over and over again and they continue to forgive you. wewe know someones your friend when they stick up for you, take a ngumi, punch for wewe then when wewe try to appologize for it and they say there's nothing to appologize for. When no matter what wewe do to them they are always ready to help you, when wewe slam the door in their face and they stay outside till wewe open the door again. wewe know they're your friend when they comfort wewe through what seems like the worst time of your life, they're the one person who knows when your hurting au when somethings wrong with just one quick look au even just text. wewe know wewe have a real friend when after all the wrong and tears wewe may have braught to their eyes, they still will forgive and upendo you.
A friend never steals your boyfriend/girlfriend. They always listen to what ever crap wewe say (pretend to at least) They are always there for you. Offer to go beat anyone who hurts you. wewe want to see them and they look mbele to seeing you. wewe have a connection, wewe just get on very well with them. They give wewe advice and hugs. They pay for wewe to get into the cinema (me xD) They let wewe borrow your clothes. wewe feel protective of them and vice versa. wewe upendo them!!!! (friendly way)
Someone's friend let's see 1.They say hello 2.They are kind 3.They stand up for u 4.They care for u 5.They don't hurt u 6.They make up for bad things 7.They're ur friend
