Honestly, I really hate that people talk about gay topics all the time. I know I like guys. End of story. Does it matter I was born like that? If it was my choice, would it seriously make a difference? Like who cares if the person was born gay au not? All it matters is the person is gay now so he can start dating guys (if he wanted to). Thats really the only thing wewe need to know. The zaidi questionable thing is why people would want to change it. Whether its the person's choice au the person was born that way, the person changing it is still being an punda either way and doesn't respect the gay person.
it's sensitive because like your swali suggests we don't know all that much about it so people can argue it's not real, it's unnatural etc. and have not totally invalid points. that creates a lot of friction that causes the topic to be sensitive. and since historically societies around the world have been varyingly but generally narrow-minded and religious a lot of people just aren't open to the idea of homosexuality
but about your question, some people probably choose to like the same sex, but generally i believe it's born
It's sensitive because it's extremely controversial. There's some people that don't have any problem with it, and some who are just plainly against it because of their own personal belief.
And to answer the question, most homosexuals are born with it. It's been biologically proven. Sure, if wewe really really want to be attracted to a different sex then I think it's possible to change it on your own. But even if wewe do it doesn't matter. That's your own personal choice which wewe have every right to make.
Personally, I don't really see why so many people are so against it. "Homosexuality is unnatural!" Yeah, because things like airplanes, houses, cars, clothing, computers, and basically everything else humans rely on are totally made kwa nature.
Don't be angry about homosexuality becoming legalized. Be angry that it's still illegal in Illinois to posses zaidi than $600 worth of salamanders. au that it's illegal to collect au carry seaweed at night in New Hampshire. au that it's illegal for donkeys to sleep in bathtubs in Arizona. Fight for equality now.
I just want to say I agree with all the other majibu people have given. People argue with topics they don't understand au are scared of. It takes one person to start anger and meanness and people don't want to be on the wrong side of it. So we have been taught Gays are wrong. It is an opinion, I am fine with. We are all scared of what people will think of us au what will happen if agree au state our opinion.
Because people have very firm opinions on the subject. There is also a lot of religious feeling on the subject.
I believe being gay isn't a choice. People don't wake up one siku and think, 'I am going to be gay today' because if they did they would able to choose not to be gay and that doesn't actually happen. Gay people are either born that way, au it develops. Sexuality is a very fluid thing.
Because people are dumbasses when it comes to same sex love. Especially christians. Sorry, SOME Christians. They believe that gays should not get married. Being a bisexual, I find this offensive beyond belief. Gays fought for their right to get married, they struggle to make themselves heard so they can be loved kwa their lover. And poeple, Christians, say "Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve!" And i'm over here throwing up in a fucking trash can. I have NOTHING against religion whatsoever, BUT, when someone like those people act so fucking dense and immature, i just want to shout "SHUT THE FUCK UP AND GROW UP wewe ASSHOLES!" Everyone should have equal rights. not just the ones, "Following God's laws." Fuck that bullshit. take your bible and shove it up your clitoris. T. T
Sorry, i get sensitive to this type of stuff ^^'''
And being gay isn't a choice. wewe become attracted to who wewe find appealing, and it's as simple as that. No one can choose who they like. wewe just... like them. wewe are what wewe are. wewe can't wake up one siku and think, "Oh, being straight is boring, I think I'll be gay now". It doesn't work that way.