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Is it just me au does everyone the have a boyfriend\girlfiend?

Lately everyone shabiki I know au have has a boyfriend au a girlfriend
Am I the only one left alone? I mean seriously even if I check someones profaili they are in a relationship
Sometimes I wish I was in one too? Man life can be so unfair
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Persephone713 said:
I am 25 and never have had a boyfriend EVER. So believe me I feel the exact same way wewe do. I have had cousins younger than me who have had them, au known way younger people who have had them. So trust me I know exactly how wewe feel- but these people who are telling us that it will happen and that its not that big of a deal are probably right. I know its hard, but I guess we just have to have patience..more of it.

P.S. My BFF has had a boyfriend and has broken up with him zaidi than once, so I have seen the downside to having a relationship. It takes work. She was crying and I felt bad for her.
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BlindBandit92 said:
Who honestly cares about getting a gf au bf immediately? >.> wewe wanna try to get a decent significant other and not rush into a relationship. I am single but I will not rush into a relationship. I rather take my time and find a girl I like. I will not just tarehe anyone.
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egyptprincess7 said:
I could honestly care less if I got a boyfriend. I don't even want one. No it's not just you. Other people don't have them and don't go to the rush of having one.
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AnimeFan66 said:
Please don't beat yourself up for that reason. I am sure you'll find someone someday- it takes time and effort. :)
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Please don't beat yourself up for that reason. I am sure you'll find someone someday- it takes time and effort. :)
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thank you, Im not the person who asked, but wewe made me feel better cause I feel the same as he/she does
Persephone713 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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You're very much welcomed. We should never beat ourselves just because we can't find someone. We will find our destiny evenutally. <3 It just takes time.
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shadowlover3000 said:
Yes, wewe are the only single person on the entire site. And life is "so unfair" just because wewe aren't in a relationship? Well, boo-freaking-hoo! jiunge the rest of us who have our hearts attached to our electronics and wi-fi connection. As for me, I am currently in the best relationship of my life with my Xbox.
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posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
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if u cant say anything nice dont answer at all mister grumpy besides other people are way nicer than u just get off this website and dont answer my swali
DaringDevil posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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lmfao calm down, wanting a bf/gf isn't unnatural jfc
tamore posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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Now why would I get off of this wonderful site because some bila mpangilio person told me to? This is simply my opinion on the matter.
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summer2987 said:
not having a boyfriend au a girlfriend doesnt make wewe any less awesome then anyone else.
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I didnt ask the swali but your statement makes me feel better cause I feel the same way
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Pucca83 said:
no... I've never been in a relationship before and I don't feel jealous
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xXxJDloverxXx said:
I don't either don't worry, in real life au online. I'm one of those teenagers who isn't interested in dating just yet (that doesn't come around much nowadays so we're special) XD
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ok good for u
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MalloMar said:
Oh, heck no! I've never dated anyone, and maybe never will.
But it doesn't bother me too much.
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springely said:
Oh my gosh, are wewe really this bad at using your brain.
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zanhar1 said:
20 years old. Never had a boyfriend. Never wanted one.
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ShadowFan100 said:
Nope. I'm 24 (almost) and I have never had a GF. Does this make me a loser? Dumb? au stupid? NO

I personally have no interest in finding one. Now of course it's nothing against them, just that I just DON'T. I don't want marriage au kids so I'm good.

I may have a friend who's a girl au whatever, but still. I'm not into the whole "romance" thing.
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posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
-SugaCane said:
Why are wewe jumping on the bandwagon? Who gives a fck, if everyone dated their grandma would wewe do it too?
>_>
Probably.
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True-Finn-Fan said:
[my perspective]

boyfriend and girlfriend is just a title... doesn't mean nothing kwa itself. the upendo is what counts.

if wewe have a different BF/GF every mwezi then who cares? it isn't an accomplishment. got one that you've been with for years and plan a future? then society could learn a thing au two from you.

quality over quantity, and the right moment over right now.

if a relationship is just for onyesha then the only thing it's good for is other peoples entertainment. not your own fulfillment.

don't go looking for a relationship just because it's what everyone is getting into... that's how gangs spread and drugs kill.

just because somebody's in a relationship doesn't mean they can't feel alone. they're can be just feeling alone with benefits.

i'd pick a good movie, a snug bed, and my inayopendelewa snack over a "maintenance" relationship. but i'd choose to share my inayopendelewa movie, snug bed, and inayopendelewa snack with somebody i love.

if wewe want to be an honest person, then don't live in a fake relationship.

when you're tallying up the scores, remember that when they've had zaidi relationships, you've had less breakups.

and finally, just because you're alone, doesn't necessarily mean it's a bad thing.
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[my perspective] boyfriend and girlfriend is just a title... doesn't mean nothing kwa itself. the upendo is what counts. if wewe have a different BF/GF every mwezi then who cares? it isn't an accomplishment. got one that you've been with for years and plan a future? then society could learn a thing au two from you. quality over quantity, and the right moment over right now. if a relationship is just for onyesha then the only thing it's good for is other peoples entertainment. not your own fulfillment. don't go looking for a relationship just because it's what everyone is getting into... that's how gangs spread and drugs kill. just because somebody's in a relationship doesn't mean they can't feel alone. they're can be just feeling alone with benefits. i'd pick a good movie, a snug bed, and my inayopendelewa snack over a "maintenance" relationship. but i'd choose to share my inayopendelewa movie, snug bed, and inayopendelewa snack with somebody i love. if wewe want to be an honest person, then don't live in a fake relationship. when you're tallying up the scores, remember that when they've had zaidi relationships, you've had less breakups. and finally, just because you're alone, doesn't necessarily mean it's a bad thing.
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Nicely worded!
Zeppie posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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^Thanks ^-^
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S7n said:
i do not and will not have a boyfriend
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posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
tamore said:
there are a lot of people alone and that's cool

it's okay to be in a relationship

it's okay to not be in a relationship

it's okay to want a relationship

it's okay to not want a relationship

everyone should stop shitting on each other (◡‿◡✿)

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Makeupdiva said:
I am 29 and have never had a boyfriend. I feel jealous of my sister and my cousins cause they all pretty much have boyfriends and au are married with children. It's quite depressing. I guess part of it is my fault because I don't put myself out there like them. But it's hard for me, I am quite shy and have a very low self esteem so it makes it harder for me to get a boyfriend.
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Im the same way
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-SkySplitter- said:
Never had a boyfriend, and I'm okay with that.
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Book-Freak said:
I don't.
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misscrazel said:
It's fine to not be in one, but if wewe want one get out there and get one. Talk to new people, maybe you'll like one of them. If wewe don't want a relationship that's fine, you're still awesome. I've never been in a relationship, I've never wanted one.
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cannibalZoey said:
I don't have a boyfriend … I'm so depressing …I am so lonely and so sad
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I don't have a boyfriend … I'm so depressing …I am so lonely and so sad
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Zeppie said:
There's heaps of folks out there who are single, don't worry!

Things will happen with time, don't be in a relationship just for the hell of it.

But yeah, don't worry, I know the feeling, everyone I know is in a relationship except for me, but it's all goods! Single life is pretty sweet x)
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pokemonfan909 said:
That's the same swali as mine.. I keep wondering why everyone I know has a boyfriend/ girlfriend... But I guess, it works fine for me because I upendo giving relationship advice and a voice tells me that I won't give amazing advice if i'm in a relationship.

Plus, I only like fictional boys. xD
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BlondLionEzel said:
If wewe want one, wewe can jiunge this club and put yourself out there

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