Am I the only 1 who feels a moment of complete rejection when a trade on any of the many sites that allow trades is deleted?

And even when wewe ask them to hariri and wewe send a message saying wewe what them to hariri and discus what they want they still futa it as if wewe didn't say anything to them...you send it specifically as an hariri so they would add au take off au whatever...and they just say it was bad and your like "i know it was bad tht's why i sent wewe a message saying it was bad so u could tell me what u want and tht's why it was sent as a suggestion so u could change it"