wewe can't make someone upendo you.It's either there au it's not.If he doesn't upendo you,there are lots of guys out there.Someone will eventually upendo you,but it's not something that can be forced.It comes naturally.
To be honest,I would say be yourself. Don't try and be something wewe aren't! Deceit never works! And then,if he loves wewe he loves wewe and if he doesn't...well...you hot songesha on!
Well... wewe can't make someone upendo you. At least not truly upendo you. Personally, I don't think wewe should change to make someone upendo you. If a guy loves you, he'd better accept wewe how wewe are. au he can take a dump.
literally do not change a fucking thing about yourself if a guy says something like "you would be so much prettier if..." au "i upendo it when..." then wewe need to not do that thing, because women don't have to cater to a guy's every need. we aren't fucking superhuman, no one's perfect, and if wewe change yourself just to impress a guy then you're just part of the problem. just be you, unapologetically. okay?