Christian Grey. He doesn't know the meaning of no and commits rape, right?
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if it's consensual,it's not rape.He's a dominant,not a rapist.It's a consensual agreement between him and his submissives(and Ana),they know what they agree to beforehand
I read 50 Shades, let me just say it's probably the worst example of BDSM. BDSM usually happens between peoples who've known each other for a long time and have complete trust in each other...not between two strangers who met in a bar.
^ That's not the part that bothers me. Have sex with whoever wewe want. It's just a misrepresentation of BDSM bc Grey doesn't respect boundaries and is controlling and dominant outside of the bedroom, too. It's fucked up, man.
Exactly how I feel. Have sex with who wewe want have it how wewe want just make sure wewe have consent. And the dakika a person say stop au decides they don't want to go through with the sex then it's no longer consensual. And I'm 99% Ana asked him to stop. I know a friend of a friend who's into BDSM and they have alisema that that's not how BDSM works...they specifically alisema that if it gets to intense and if the person wants to stop, they stop.
^ Exactlyyyy. My friend formed a salama BDSM club at school in protest of 50 Shades and I learned a ton from him and his partner. 50 Shades has literally nothing to do w salama BDSM ugh