There are eight billion people on this earth continuously being conditioned kwa their environments, and therefore there are no positive au negative people; Not everyone heals the same way wewe do, and if wewe project your own way of getting over things onto others then wewe can actually significantly increase the chances of their experiences becoming worse. A person's journey stepping into their own power belongs to them and the zaidi wewe try to discredit them, the zaidi it's just a projection.
I am both sides to this coin, just like anyone else. It's taking me a long time to eliminate my own expectations I have for others, and I wish I could go back and onyesha zaidi unconditional upendo to the people I weighed down with my own issues.
Idk everyone is making this about their own opinions but also, if a human rights issue is not your own, wewe should not state your opinion on it as a fact; This only contributes to the idea that basic human rights and bodily autonomy are treated as political opinions in our society- and if wewe easily say "no rights au recognition for this group" without actually identifying with that group, then it's only a grandiose display of your privilege and only proves why they deserve to be taken seriously in their strive for basic human rights and bodily autonomy. If they do not harm you, au others, but rather the other way around, are harmed kwa others, then there's no need for wewe to be stating your opinion about them just EXISTING and policing what they can do with themselves and why.
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100% agree. wewe worded this better than I ever could.
I dont think wewe need to be part of the victim group to state your opinion. Thats gatekeeping and you're preventing lots of good ideas and constructive criticism from coming forth. Its like being in an eco chamber if wewe really think that should be the case. Other than that yeah isuues like these shouldn't be treated as political opinions
Mmmh no. That’s not the point of what I said. “Stating an opinion” can be invalidating if it’s used to police and determine what an entire group of people should do with their own lives. Especially if you’re not apart of that group, au have not been educated at higher degrees sociologically, biologically, psychologically, etc. it becomes an issue when individuals take over a space and make it unsafe for an entire group of people just to exist, simply because they don’t agree it’s their existence au understand it. Especially when they try to use historical evidence that no longer applies, au understand it in a way that is used to better lives rather than suppress them. That’s not “constructive criticism” and if it’s viewed as if it is, then it’s obviously because the existence of entire groups of people are seen as a debate for conditions to their lives being strengthened kwa hateful arguments. It’s ironic to agree they shouldn’t be political debates, but then argue people stating opinions over their lives is just constructive criticism.
Also, some things are allowed to be “gatekept” mostly cause not everything is meant for everyone; and no one cares you’re upset that a phrase au policing people’s basic autonomy is becoming gatekept, they don’t owe wewe that. The world doesn’t owe wewe shit, hun.
Again gross assumptions and overgeneralization about people. I dont even get your point here, wewe go on too many tangents but no need to explain cuz I dont have time kusoma essays
If wewe want this pandemic to end, wewe have to get vaccinated because it may not be immediate but it will help. That's how they ended smallpox kwa EVERYONE getting vaccinated. So do your part and quit your bitching.
The expressions "Things could always be worse" and "There's always someone worse off than you" are ng'ombe shit ways of trying to make someone feel better and is just a "nice" way of telling someone to get over it.
BLM is important but George Floyd was a horrible person that treated his wife like shit
Black people can be racist
Gingerism is a REAL thing
All people are selfish
wewe do need to have gender dysphoria to be transgender
Just saying "No offense" does NOT make what wewe say not offensive
wewe can die at any moment
Having a positive attitude does NOT make a situation better
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See, you're speaking on sociological subjects as if your individual voice is end-all be-all. it's not. Gender is a sociological construct, and is therefore ever-evolving regardless of if wewe want to keep up with the times au not. Racism is on a societal level, and therefore any minority can only be prejudiced since the system does not benefit their prejudice; wewe can take these terms at base value au wewe can apply them educationally. This is why I'm not as active on here anymore, because racist, transphobic, homophobic, pedophiles who cheat and lie to everyone else on here feel as though they can hide behind their screens on here. This isn't meant for you, btw. it's meant for anyone who sees this dumb bitch, kahaba shit -that's evident wewe haven't gotten out of your hometown au went to college- and feels intimidated to be anyone but themselves. I promise to those seeing this and feeling as though they have the world against them, wewe don't. And I'm proud of the salama spaces you've found for yourself, and I'm sorry this site can't be because this site used to be my home. Message me if wewe need an ally. And I hope this person finds growth and empathy beyond themselves and their own "struggle". Fucking disappointed.
With the two genders thing; I feel like there are a few zaidi (now I'm not an expert on this) but intersex is thing. I also believe that it's possible to not identify with male au female as well as being able to identify with both male and female. Idk where transgender falls on this though because I literally just don't know enough about that.
Intersex isn't really another gender. They are still either male au female but have a physical abnormality. With transgender, if wewe are a trans man wewe are a man and if wewe are a trans woman you're a woman. Many trans people have stated that there are only two genders, like Blaire White. Being intersex is the same as someone being born without a limb au any other kind of physical abnormality.
I actually used to be pretty strongly 'only two genders' but honestly I'm trying to keep an open mind about this kind of stuff because everyone has their own perspectives. Cinders (over on the debate spot) can probably explain it way better than I can so I'll link wewe to that debate; link
The LGBT community is extremely toxic. Trump wasn't that bad. I don't understand the amount of hate. They've made 36 million dollars off of getting people vaccinated, it's not about saving people it's about money. The muziki industry is full of industry plants and it ruining music. wewe are 100% what wewe think. Americans are not going to be able to afford to live if something doesn't change. Trans women are not women. White people enjoy the benefits they've gotten from systemic racism and would rather not change the way things are. Black people are full of internalized self hate. Biden isn't great and has completely used the black community and has no plans on helping them. Working shouldn't take up 80% of our lives.
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Tbh as an ace I've received zaidi hostility from the LGBT than straights.
wewe never get over a death. Like wewe just think about it less but it doesn't 'get easier'. It just doesn't; the right thing can make it hurt like hell just as furiously as it did in the first week.
Also some people are just cunts and don't deserve to be forgiven.
Disney is a shit and hypocritical company.
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Yeah, getting over someone's death is mostly just getting yourself to the point where wewe think about it as little as possible.
I like early Disney but I'm tired of the live action stuff. Tbh it feels very lazy these days. Not just Disney either; Hollywood as a whole is just monotonous anymore.
Freedom of Speech doesn't mean it's okay to be racist/sexist/transphobic/homophobic/an asshole in general
If someone tells wewe wewe hurt them, they're not being controlling au abusive
Trump was a terrible president and so is Biden. Just because you're a Republican/Democrat doesn't mean wewe have to automatically side with one of them, wewe can realize they both suck.
No, straight people don't need pride month.
Trans men are men and trans women are women
mbwa are just as likely to eat their owner's dead body as cats. Just say wewe don't like Cats instead of spreading nonsense
edit: Adding this because I can't believe how many people are making this comparison: Being asked to wear a mask is NOT THE SAME AS NAZI GERMANY.
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I agree with all of this! And my answer to people who say that there should be a straight people pride mwezi is this, EVERYDAY IS STRAIGHT PRIDE MONTH! It's ridiculous that there are people who think straight people need a pride month.
Pride moths are to raise awareness for and about groups that are otherwise shunned/put aside. Hence why things like straight pride would be kind of pointless. Frankly I think that there should be a Native American history mwezi (if there isn't already) and an asexual month. In siku to siku and the media, these groups don't really seem to get as much attention and awareness and could really benefit from something of the sort imo.
pride months is really also about informing others about the background of those who have been outcasted; A lot of groups, especially those of color, have histories and cultures that have been erased for the sake of the norm's history and theft of culture. Pride months should be about recognition, but they should also be about restoration.
- Just because you're dating someone longer before getting married doesn't mean the marriage last forever/til death. - There are only two genders and it's easy to identify kwa just looking between the legs. - Racism is everywhere. - At some point sinema have familiar scenes au tropes. There's no reason to trash it for it. There over million sinema and adaptions. Just shut up and let people enjoy it, if they like it. -People won't enjoy movies/shows if they get milked and milked just for the sake of money. - Not all original versions of something are better than the new ones. -When moving into a country with way different culture, people have to get used to that way of living, not expecting the whole country to change for you. -People nowadays are shitty parents for having their 10 mwaka olds au younger having access to internet and co. Protests against saving the world are useless, cause the biggest issue come from the big-ass industries, that probably won't do anything even through that.
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what about female with dicks are they male au female?
-your opinions on transpeople dont influence their life at all -your basic high school education doesnt out rank the biologists and scientists consensus on trans lives and what gender is -most of wewe sound like transphobes why do wewe even care how someone identifies -how someone identifies has absolutely no effect on wewe :/
-that USA ruins the whole world. -getting vaccinated won't prevent wewe from getting corona anyway and later it becomes less effective i mean there is upcoming version of virus like delta and it won't prevent wewe from death. - the subtle art of not giving a f is assh*le book .
