In life, there will always be people that wewe don't like, that don't like you. But that's one of the challenges in life, being the bigger person, not letting someone else destroy your life.
For instance, there's two students in a class. The first one is attractive, popular. They're a horrible person, yet they have the school wound round their little finger.
The sekunde student however, is the most beautiful person inside. They're intelligent, natural, yet they're unpopular, and don't have a lot of friends.
The teacher has a seating plan, and has put these two students inayofuata to eachother. The first one moans bitterly and constantly gives the sekunde student dirty looks, mouthing about them to their Marafiki on the other side of the classroom.
Imagine you're that sekunde student, understanding every cruel signal that they're making. For many victims of bullying, the automatic reaction is to bend over the dawati and blink back the tears, burning bright red in the face, wanting to sink through the floor. But, what if wewe have a choice. wewe know yourself that wewe don't want to sit inayofuata to this student any zaidi than they want to sit inayofuata to you. So why should wewe be the one cowering away, why should wewe give them that satisfaction, that power?
It doesn't necessarily mean that wewe have to start up an argument with them, wewe can be bigger than that. Instead, wewe can pity them. wewe can look them in the eye and raise your eyebrows like they're talking shit, because they are.
wewe can get on with the work set and ignore their childish behaviour, knowing that they'll suffer in the future.
No one's saying it's easy, but it's possible. It's possible for anyone to do, they just need a little self-belief to remember that they're precious, and the student sitting inayofuata to them is nothing but dirt at the bottom of the pile.
Many teenagers go through bullying, teasing, siku after day. No one can understand how it feels until wewe go through it yourself. It hurts zaidi than anyone realizes. But it doesn't have to hurt. If this is you, then you're not alone. Whether you're a guy au a girl, whichever country wewe come from, I promise wewe wewe are not alone. The world isn't against you, and there will always be people thinking of you, even if they have no idea wewe exist. Some people will be thinking of every person in your situation, and either hoping au praying that wewe make through it. Because when wewe get out of school with your great exam results, you'll have all the opportunities in the world.
If your grades are going down because of a situation like this, don't let them. Pluck out a smile from nowhere and ignore those bastards that do their best to make your life a misery. They're not worth it.
But you're worth a dozen smiles. So make something of yourself, don't curl up in a ball and cry. Instead, when wewe inayofuata hear that insult from the bully wewe hate, don't listen to it. Instead, listen to your heart. Because your moyo will always be telling wewe 'Stay strong, keep going. Because someone loves you, someone cares'.
For instance, there's two students in a class. The first one is attractive, popular. They're a horrible person, yet they have the school wound round their little finger.
The sekunde student however, is the most beautiful person inside. They're intelligent, natural, yet they're unpopular, and don't have a lot of friends.
The teacher has a seating plan, and has put these two students inayofuata to eachother. The first one moans bitterly and constantly gives the sekunde student dirty looks, mouthing about them to their Marafiki on the other side of the classroom.
Imagine you're that sekunde student, understanding every cruel signal that they're making. For many victims of bullying, the automatic reaction is to bend over the dawati and blink back the tears, burning bright red in the face, wanting to sink through the floor. But, what if wewe have a choice. wewe know yourself that wewe don't want to sit inayofuata to this student any zaidi than they want to sit inayofuata to you. So why should wewe be the one cowering away, why should wewe give them that satisfaction, that power?
It doesn't necessarily mean that wewe have to start up an argument with them, wewe can be bigger than that. Instead, wewe can pity them. wewe can look them in the eye and raise your eyebrows like they're talking shit, because they are.
wewe can get on with the work set and ignore their childish behaviour, knowing that they'll suffer in the future.
No one's saying it's easy, but it's possible. It's possible for anyone to do, they just need a little self-belief to remember that they're precious, and the student sitting inayofuata to them is nothing but dirt at the bottom of the pile.
Many teenagers go through bullying, teasing, siku after day. No one can understand how it feels until wewe go through it yourself. It hurts zaidi than anyone realizes. But it doesn't have to hurt. If this is you, then you're not alone. Whether you're a guy au a girl, whichever country wewe come from, I promise wewe wewe are not alone. The world isn't against you, and there will always be people thinking of you, even if they have no idea wewe exist. Some people will be thinking of every person in your situation, and either hoping au praying that wewe make through it. Because when wewe get out of school with your great exam results, you'll have all the opportunities in the world.
If your grades are going down because of a situation like this, don't let them. Pluck out a smile from nowhere and ignore those bastards that do their best to make your life a misery. They're not worth it.
But you're worth a dozen smiles. So make something of yourself, don't curl up in a ball and cry. Instead, when wewe inayofuata hear that insult from the bully wewe hate, don't listen to it. Instead, listen to your heart. Because your moyo will always be telling wewe 'Stay strong, keep going. Because someone loves you, someone cares'.
