Enemies and haters can be annoying and their maoni and insults can upset you. Learn how to deal with it...
1)If wewe don’t know why they hate you, ask them calmly and nicely. If they are nasty to wewe au start swearing au being violent, walk away and don’t bother trying to talk to them again until they have calmed down au until they talk to wewe nicely. Some people can be aliyopewa sekunde chances to realize that wewe aren’t really a bad person and they have nothing to hate wewe for. But some people just won’t like wewe in life, so don’t waste your time fretting about why they don’t like you.
2)Ignore whatever they say. They are probably only insulting wewe because they are jealous. No matter what they say, it can’t offend wewe unless wewe let it. Just remember when they say something nasty to you, they want wewe to react. So pretend wewe didn’t hear it. Don’t acknowledge them au give them any attention for it. If they continue insulting wewe au bothering wewe in any way, walk away from them. Don’t look at them au talk to them; just walk away. After a few times of wewe doing this they will probably get bored and stop picking on.
3)Surround yourself with Marafiki and people who like wewe for who wewe are. These people will make wewe feel zaidi confident about yourself and wewe should realize that it doesn’t matter what haters say as long as wewe have good Marafiki kwa your side.
4)If they start being violent towards wewe au continue offending wewe au upsetting you, and ignoring them is not helping, tell them that their behavior is upsetting wewe and tell them that they have no reason for it. If they still carry on, wewe will have to learn to stop being upset kwa their maoni and realize that whatever they say is probably a lie.
5)If wewe know why they hate you, be mature and apologize if it was your fault. Holding grudges against people and not apologizing can sometimes seem like the reasonable thing to do but in the end, if its your fault, only wewe can fix it. Apologize to them seriously, and if they don’t accept it, there isn’t much zaidi wewe can do than ignore them.
6)Show them respect as wewe onyesha to your friends; when they need help, help them. This will onyesha them that wewe are friendly and kind. Give them compliments and try not to sound hurtful, don't judge them if they say bad stuff back. And if these things don't work out, just tell your Marafiki and they can cool wewe down, and take a deep breath and try again. Never be offended, but if did, try not to loose control. "Control" is important, when things gets messed up, control yourself, au make excuses to get out of the situation instead of loosing your mind trying to settle things.
7)If wewe follow the last piece of advice with people who are purportedly hostile, wewe are a fool and only contribute to them taking advantage of your kindness. Do not give enemies one ounce of your energy. kwa helping anyone, especially enemies, wewe may be giving something to someone who doesn't "deserve" it karmically. Your best bet is to ground out their energy (return it to Earth/heaven/God/etc) and forget about it. Don't worry- they will get exactly what they deserve that way. ;-)
8)Never try to hurt them when they are being mean.
When wewe talk to them, think before wewe talk.
They are only ememies and only do that to gain attention.
Never be scared of them.
Don't back talk to them.
1)If wewe don’t know why they hate you, ask them calmly and nicely. If they are nasty to wewe au start swearing au being violent, walk away and don’t bother trying to talk to them again until they have calmed down au until they talk to wewe nicely. Some people can be aliyopewa sekunde chances to realize that wewe aren’t really a bad person and they have nothing to hate wewe for. But some people just won’t like wewe in life, so don’t waste your time fretting about why they don’t like you.
2)Ignore whatever they say. They are probably only insulting wewe because they are jealous. No matter what they say, it can’t offend wewe unless wewe let it. Just remember when they say something nasty to you, they want wewe to react. So pretend wewe didn’t hear it. Don’t acknowledge them au give them any attention for it. If they continue insulting wewe au bothering wewe in any way, walk away from them. Don’t look at them au talk to them; just walk away. After a few times of wewe doing this they will probably get bored and stop picking on.
3)Surround yourself with Marafiki and people who like wewe for who wewe are. These people will make wewe feel zaidi confident about yourself and wewe should realize that it doesn’t matter what haters say as long as wewe have good Marafiki kwa your side.
4)If they start being violent towards wewe au continue offending wewe au upsetting you, and ignoring them is not helping, tell them that their behavior is upsetting wewe and tell them that they have no reason for it. If they still carry on, wewe will have to learn to stop being upset kwa their maoni and realize that whatever they say is probably a lie.
5)If wewe know why they hate you, be mature and apologize if it was your fault. Holding grudges against people and not apologizing can sometimes seem like the reasonable thing to do but in the end, if its your fault, only wewe can fix it. Apologize to them seriously, and if they don’t accept it, there isn’t much zaidi wewe can do than ignore them.
6)Show them respect as wewe onyesha to your friends; when they need help, help them. This will onyesha them that wewe are friendly and kind. Give them compliments and try not to sound hurtful, don't judge them if they say bad stuff back. And if these things don't work out, just tell your Marafiki and they can cool wewe down, and take a deep breath and try again. Never be offended, but if did, try not to loose control. "Control" is important, when things gets messed up, control yourself, au make excuses to get out of the situation instead of loosing your mind trying to settle things.
7)If wewe follow the last piece of advice with people who are purportedly hostile, wewe are a fool and only contribute to them taking advantage of your kindness. Do not give enemies one ounce of your energy. kwa helping anyone, especially enemies, wewe may be giving something to someone who doesn't "deserve" it karmically. Your best bet is to ground out their energy (return it to Earth/heaven/God/etc) and forget about it. Don't worry- they will get exactly what they deserve that way. ;-)
8)Never try to hurt them when they are being mean.
When wewe talk to them, think before wewe talk.
They are only ememies and only do that to gain attention.
Never be scared of them.
Don't back talk to them.
MEOW, CALIFORNIA! See? There's something deeply liberating in yelling out something random, and it makes wewe think 'Hey, I don't care what wewe think about me!' Go on, try it now, say something random! There we go.
The word 'random' should not be confused with weird, au stupid. They are three very different things, and if wewe don't believe me, look it up in an English Dictionary.
Obviously, some people are zaidi reserved than others, and will simply not go yelling out bila mpangilio things, but what I am trying to really say is, is to just feel free to be yourself! It's your life, so live it!
The word 'random' should not be confused with weird, au stupid. They are three very different things, and if wewe don't believe me, look it up in an English Dictionary.
Obviously, some people are zaidi reserved than others, and will simply not go yelling out bila mpangilio things, but what I am trying to really say is, is to just feel free to be yourself! It's your life, so live it!
nothing stands
but never lands
nothing i do ever makes me feel
nothing anyone does will make me real
im not really there and i dont care so why do i feel as lonely as air
something there but no one cares
just one thing that no one thinks is there
just something thats as quiet as death
im not there i never was not until
im ever loved
but i dont no one cares so why am i ever even there i am not real i am not there im just as dry as a volkano flair.
(well heres another poem
and its about death so yep there we go)
Ok today i will tell wewe 12 secrets about myself!
Exciting!
1.I upendo animals
2.I own tons of manga and anime dvds
3.I am a huge crybaby
4.i am a girl *not really a secret*
5.i upendo uandishi my manga series *it's not famous*
6.i upendo going outside
7.i have a boyfriend
8.i am chewing gum
9.i upendo the stars
10.i upendo to dance
11.my grades are "ok"
12.i like to watch tv alot
13.I am not like other girls
14.i care alot for my Marafiki on here
15.I don't have a bedtime
16.i tried making a drink kwa putting chokoleti and bubble gum
The End
I hope wewe enjoyed!
Exciting!
1.I upendo animals
2.I own tons of manga and anime dvds
3.I am a huge crybaby
4.i am a girl *not really a secret*
5.i upendo uandishi my manga series *it's not famous*
6.i upendo going outside
7.i have a boyfriend
8.i am chewing gum
9.i upendo the stars
10.i upendo to dance
11.my grades are "ok"
12.i like to watch tv alot
13.I am not like other girls
14.i care alot for my Marafiki on here
15.I don't have a bedtime
16.i tried making a drink kwa putting chokoleti and bubble gum
The End
I hope wewe enjoyed!
BERLIN (Reuters) – A fox, mbweha has been unmasked as the mystery thief of zaidi than 100 shoes in the small western German town of Foehren, authorities alisema Friday.
A forest worker stumbled upon shoes strewn near the fox's pango and found a trove of viatu down the hole which had recently been stolen overnight from outside locals' front doors.
"There was everything from ladies' shoes to trainers," alisema a local police spokesman. "We've found between 110 and 120 so far. It seems a vixen aliiba them for her cubs to play with."
Although many were missing laces, the shoes were in good condition and their owners were delighted to reclaim them, he said, adding that no reprisals were planned against the culprit.
A forest worker stumbled upon shoes strewn near the fox's pango and found a trove of viatu down the hole which had recently been stolen overnight from outside locals' front doors.
"There was everything from ladies' shoes to trainers," alisema a local police spokesman. "We've found between 110 and 120 so far. It seems a vixen aliiba them for her cubs to play with."
Although many were missing laces, the shoes were in good condition and their owners were delighted to reclaim them, he said, adding that no reprisals were planned against the culprit.