Enemies and haters can be annoying and their maoni and insults can upset you. Learn how to deal with it...
1)If wewe don’t know why they hate you, ask them calmly and nicely. If they are nasty to wewe au start swearing au being violent, walk away and don’t bother trying to talk to them again until they have calmed down au until they talk to wewe nicely. Some people can be aliyopewa sekunde chances to realize that wewe aren’t really a bad person and they have nothing to hate wewe for. But some people just won’t like wewe in life, so don’t waste your time fretting about why they don’t like you.
2)Ignore whatever they say. They are probably only insulting wewe because they are jealous. No matter what they say, it can’t offend wewe unless wewe let it. Just remember when they say something nasty to you, they want wewe to react. So pretend wewe didn’t hear it. Don’t acknowledge them au give them any attention for it. If they continue insulting wewe au bothering wewe in any way, walk away from them. Don’t look at them au talk to them; just walk away. After a few times of wewe doing this they will probably get bored and stop picking on.
3)Surround yourself with Marafiki and people who like wewe for who wewe are. These people will make wewe feel zaidi confident about yourself and wewe should realize that it doesn’t matter what haters say as long as wewe have good Marafiki kwa your side.
4)If they start being violent towards wewe au continue offending wewe au upsetting you, and ignoring them is not helping, tell them that their behavior is upsetting wewe and tell them that they have no reason for it. If they still carry on, wewe will have to learn to stop being upset kwa their maoni and realize that whatever they say is probably a lie.
5)If wewe know why they hate you, be mature and apologize if it was your fault. Holding grudges against people and not apologizing can sometimes seem like the reasonable thing to do but in the end, if its your fault, only wewe can fix it. Apologize to them seriously, and if they don’t accept it, there isn’t much zaidi wewe can do than ignore them.
6)Show them respect as wewe onyesha to your friends; when they need help, help them. This will onyesha them that wewe are friendly and kind. Give them compliments and try not to sound hurtful, don't judge them if they say bad stuff back. And if these things don't work out, just tell your Marafiki and they can cool wewe down, and take a deep breath and try again. Never be offended, but if did, try not to loose control. "Control" is important, when things gets messed up, control yourself, au make excuses to get out of the situation instead of loosing your mind trying to settle things.
7)If wewe follow the last piece of advice with people who are purportedly hostile, wewe are a fool and only contribute to them taking advantage of your kindness. Do not give enemies one ounce of your energy. kwa helping anyone, especially enemies, wewe may be giving something to someone who doesn't "deserve" it karmically. Your best bet is to ground out their energy (return it to Earth/heaven/God/etc) and forget about it. Don't worry- they will get exactly what they deserve that way. ;-)
8)Never try to hurt them when they are being mean.
When wewe talk to them, think before wewe talk.
They are only ememies and only do that to gain attention.
Never be scared of them.
Don't back talk to them.
1)If wewe don’t know why they hate you, ask them calmly and nicely. If they are nasty to wewe au start swearing au being violent, walk away and don’t bother trying to talk to them again until they have calmed down au until they talk to wewe nicely. Some people can be aliyopewa sekunde chances to realize that wewe aren’t really a bad person and they have nothing to hate wewe for. But some people just won’t like wewe in life, so don’t waste your time fretting about why they don’t like you.
2)Ignore whatever they say. They are probably only insulting wewe because they are jealous. No matter what they say, it can’t offend wewe unless wewe let it. Just remember when they say something nasty to you, they want wewe to react. So pretend wewe didn’t hear it. Don’t acknowledge them au give them any attention for it. If they continue insulting wewe au bothering wewe in any way, walk away from them. Don’t look at them au talk to them; just walk away. After a few times of wewe doing this they will probably get bored and stop picking on.
3)Surround yourself with Marafiki and people who like wewe for who wewe are. These people will make wewe feel zaidi confident about yourself and wewe should realize that it doesn’t matter what haters say as long as wewe have good Marafiki kwa your side.
4)If they start being violent towards wewe au continue offending wewe au upsetting you, and ignoring them is not helping, tell them that their behavior is upsetting wewe and tell them that they have no reason for it. If they still carry on, wewe will have to learn to stop being upset kwa their maoni and realize that whatever they say is probably a lie.
5)If wewe know why they hate you, be mature and apologize if it was your fault. Holding grudges against people and not apologizing can sometimes seem like the reasonable thing to do but in the end, if its your fault, only wewe can fix it. Apologize to them seriously, and if they don’t accept it, there isn’t much zaidi wewe can do than ignore them.
6)Show them respect as wewe onyesha to your friends; when they need help, help them. This will onyesha them that wewe are friendly and kind. Give them compliments and try not to sound hurtful, don't judge them if they say bad stuff back. And if these things don't work out, just tell your Marafiki and they can cool wewe down, and take a deep breath and try again. Never be offended, but if did, try not to loose control. "Control" is important, when things gets messed up, control yourself, au make excuses to get out of the situation instead of loosing your mind trying to settle things.
7)If wewe follow the last piece of advice with people who are purportedly hostile, wewe are a fool and only contribute to them taking advantage of your kindness. Do not give enemies one ounce of your energy. kwa helping anyone, especially enemies, wewe may be giving something to someone who doesn't "deserve" it karmically. Your best bet is to ground out their energy (return it to Earth/heaven/God/etc) and forget about it. Don't worry- they will get exactly what they deserve that way. ;-)
8)Never try to hurt them when they are being mean.
When wewe talk to them, think before wewe talk.
They are only ememies and only do that to gain attention.
Never be scared of them.
Don't back talk to them.
