In my opnion when it comes to friendship it means that wewe and the people wewe care about stick together for periods of time until wewe get to know one another.
However, not a lot of people are like this. In my case, I may have over a dozen mashabiki but a percentage of them even talk to me nor do they know who I am and what I meant to be on here for. Don't get me wrong a few of the mashabiki I have are very nice to me. Whenver I talk to them I always feel welcomed, safe, secured, and better. But when I am being treated unfairly au being abused au played around it makes me angry, sad, depressed, and unhappy.
I am not making this makala to hate everyone but I am just expressing myself to wewe all out there- the dakika wewe try to make Marafiki with somebody most of the Marafiki wewe make will evenutally songesha on and leave wewe behind, ripping wewe apart like a lion with a wildebeest. wewe may think I am going to leave wewe but I never will: I never forget someone once I have talked to them au have meet them before. I always try to be on here all the time for my Marafiki and most of the time I make it while there are times when I don't even make it au I may not want to come because I know I will get treated unfairly like what most people do to me all the time. It's just not fair to treat Marafiki this way.
Again I do not mean to start any arguments au diagreeing au agreeing here. I am only expressing myself because I think what these so called "fans" are doing to each other and towards me is unfair. We come on to have fun not to be abused. :( So the choice is yours- wewe can choose to be a bad person and just come on fanpop and ignore the ones wewe care about dearly au be like me and the rest of my other great friens and just come on for the joy and for talking to the ones that mean dearly to you. But the choice wewe make depends on the kind of person wewe are. I am a good person because I know I am. I give away gifts, I create gifts for my friends, I talk to them, come on for their sakes if they need help au have troubles with something au if they simply need a person who can listen to them. I am all of that and I am always online for them.
Just take a pieace of the page from my book- Marafiki are harder to find in this world especially Marafiki that wewe can relate to au trust. I have a diffcult time finding the right friends, but I know I have them with me. They are the great ones because they understand me better and they know what I am looking for. I am not looking for someone who likes the stuff I do- even though that is what Marafiki are about but it's not the only thing I am looking for. What I am looking for as well are the kind of people that I can talk with and even express my proublems and feelings to. I know I have my family with me to express my issues too but they don't quite understand certain boundries. I am happy they are there for me and I always am happy to have them but I need some other good people besides them and that is why I come on here- to make as many great Marafiki as I possibly can to feel happy and welcomed. :) It's not about the attention, it's about the sake of the many faces here on Fanpop.
This is my story and I hope wewe all will learn something from me- it's not easy being the nice responsiable one in the group, but being reasonable and kind is what gets us going in life. It's always best to do what is right rather than do what is wrong. The right choices wewe make will effect the sake of your friends. I know I am happy being a nice person and a great friend for my friends. I upendo my fanpop pals with all of my moyo and I would never trade anything for them. I wouldn't even give up on them. If it weren't for them, I would be nothing. But just learn from what I have gone through: it's not always easy to make trust in somebody unless wewe get to know them better first. But if they ignore wewe au go off doing their own thing then they are no better than any of wewe and I. Again, not being instuling about all of wewe just saying.
However, not a lot of people are like this. In my case, I may have over a dozen mashabiki but a percentage of them even talk to me nor do they know who I am and what I meant to be on here for. Don't get me wrong a few of the mashabiki I have are very nice to me. Whenver I talk to them I always feel welcomed, safe, secured, and better. But when I am being treated unfairly au being abused au played around it makes me angry, sad, depressed, and unhappy.
I am not making this makala to hate everyone but I am just expressing myself to wewe all out there- the dakika wewe try to make Marafiki with somebody most of the Marafiki wewe make will evenutally songesha on and leave wewe behind, ripping wewe apart like a lion with a wildebeest. wewe may think I am going to leave wewe but I never will: I never forget someone once I have talked to them au have meet them before. I always try to be on here all the time for my Marafiki and most of the time I make it while there are times when I don't even make it au I may not want to come because I know I will get treated unfairly like what most people do to me all the time. It's just not fair to treat Marafiki this way.
Again I do not mean to start any arguments au diagreeing au agreeing here. I am only expressing myself because I think what these so called "fans" are doing to each other and towards me is unfair. We come on to have fun not to be abused. :( So the choice is yours- wewe can choose to be a bad person and just come on fanpop and ignore the ones wewe care about dearly au be like me and the rest of my other great friens and just come on for the joy and for talking to the ones that mean dearly to you. But the choice wewe make depends on the kind of person wewe are. I am a good person because I know I am. I give away gifts, I create gifts for my friends, I talk to them, come on for their sakes if they need help au have troubles with something au if they simply need a person who can listen to them. I am all of that and I am always online for them.
Just take a pieace of the page from my book- Marafiki are harder to find in this world especially Marafiki that wewe can relate to au trust. I have a diffcult time finding the right friends, but I know I have them with me. They are the great ones because they understand me better and they know what I am looking for. I am not looking for someone who likes the stuff I do- even though that is what Marafiki are about but it's not the only thing I am looking for. What I am looking for as well are the kind of people that I can talk with and even express my proublems and feelings to. I know I have my family with me to express my issues too but they don't quite understand certain boundries. I am happy they are there for me and I always am happy to have them but I need some other good people besides them and that is why I come on here- to make as many great Marafiki as I possibly can to feel happy and welcomed. :) It's not about the attention, it's about the sake of the many faces here on Fanpop.
This is my story and I hope wewe all will learn something from me- it's not easy being the nice responsiable one in the group, but being reasonable and kind is what gets us going in life. It's always best to do what is right rather than do what is wrong. The right choices wewe make will effect the sake of your friends. I know I am happy being a nice person and a great friend for my friends. I upendo my fanpop pals with all of my moyo and I would never trade anything for them. I wouldn't even give up on them. If it weren't for them, I would be nothing. But just learn from what I have gone through: it's not always easy to make trust in somebody unless wewe get to know them better first. But if they ignore wewe au go off doing their own thing then they are no better than any of wewe and I. Again, not being instuling about all of wewe just saying.
