As many of wewe girls out there know who have gone through this, all wewe want to do after a break-up is cry...

wewe want to cry because wewe are hurt and because he broke your heart, but take my advice and crying will soon be a thing of the past:

1-After a break-up go shopping and hang with your Marafiki every day. Do NOT stay nyumbani alone au wewe will feel depressed.

2-You MUST stay active. Do exercise (which will make wewe feel better on another level), do art, read, make things, and help out around the house. wewe could even clean!

3-Spoil yourself. Have your inayopendelewa dessert, au go to a movie au a tamasha with all your friends.

Remember, do not look at old picha of the two of wewe au stay nyumbani listening to upendo songs. wewe have to songesha on. Put the pictures in a box and don't look at them for a loooooooong time.

Advice sent in kwa Wambie Shiningstar542 (14)